4 correct ways to recruit high-quality uncles

This kind of man should have been educated in Western culture since childhood, advocates liberalism, and does not like to be bound by anything. In their cognition, marriage is just a piece of paper. If both parties are truly in love, why bother about that contract?

Don't think that this kind of man is not serious about relationships. On the contrary, this kind of man takes relationships very seriously. It's just because of their yearning for freedom that they are unwilling to take on the responsibility of marriage too early. If you want to recruit such an old man, don't blindly use means such as control, restraint, training, and rules, because a man who yearns for freedom will never be bound by anything.

The only effective method is to "let him go", give him absolute trust, absolute freedom, and try to be consistent with him on the view of freedom. If you can do these things, then he is basically in your basket and can't escape! Why do I say this? Because in today's society, it is very rare for a woman to completely trust a man. 99% of women lack a sense of security. As long as their men are not under their control, they will be suspicious, doubtful, and have wild thoughts, which is often something that 99% of men hate very much.

2. Divorced men

Most divorced men don’t really want to try marriage again, because the hurt of the first marriage has already made them afraid. And for divorced men, the most important task in life has been completed once, so it doesn’t matter whether they complete it a second time, so it is very difficult for divorced men to choose their next marriage partner again.

As the saying goes: Once bitten, you'll be afraid of the rope for ten years. Most divorced men don't have much expectation for marriage, and even have a fear of it. In their dictionary, the word marriage has been covered by correction fluid. So, how to remove this dried correction fluid? We must start from the reasons for his last failed marriage, and formulate corresponding offensive measures to break down his psychological defenses.

For example: if the reason for his previous divorce was that the woman was too strong and oppressed him, then you must put forward enough equal conditions to cultivate his confidence in life again. For another example: if the reason for his previous divorce was that his sex life was not harmonious, then you can only rely on your rich experience in the past to cater to his taste, which is a bit difficult and depends on fate. Anyway, I am just pointing out a clear path for everyone, because everyone's divorce reasons are different, and everyone needs to use their college entrance examination problem-solving skills to show their own magical powers.

3. Men with too good conditions and too high standards

Such men usually think highly of themselves, and of course their conditions are indeed good, so they are also qualified to be picky. Then, as they grow older and gain more experience, they see things more and more clearly, and have a clearer idea of ​​the kind of marriage they want. As a result, their conditions for choosing a spouse will only become more and more demanding.

This type of man is actually the easiest to recruit. On the surface, they just can't find a partner because they set too many and too harsh conditions, but in essence, they keep a trying attitude towards every girl who is close to the standard, and will not be 100% committed, because they always think that maybe there will be better ones in the future, and we will talk about it first. For this kind of mentality of riding a donkey to find a horse, you have to take drastic measures. The most effective way is to get into his circle first, let all his friends know you and know your relationship with him, and force him to be 100% committed to your relationship. Why do I say this? In fact, it is not that this type of man is fickle, but the real reason is that the friends around him like to play matchmaker too much.

I believe that many single girls have experienced that their close friends will introduce you to someone from time to time, and this kind of thing does not only happen to single women, but those single men have become the main targets of bombing. Therefore, when you can directly cut into his circle of friends and declare territorial ownership, this situation can be completely eliminated in the bud.

4. A successful man who works more than 12 hours a day

There are only 24 hours in a day, and it is remarkable to spend half of them on work. Such men are often successful in their careers, but because most of their experience is spent on work, they have neither the time nor the energy to fall in love, so they have wealth but no time to find their other half.

To be honest, I think a workaholic is not an ideal marriage partner. What is the purpose of marriage? Isn't it for a stable and happy family? A workaholic can only bring money to the family, and nothing else. Of course, everyone has their own aspirations. In this era where economy is paramount, many girls still pay more attention to economic strength. So, my suggestion is to spend his money as much as possible, and all this money should be spent on yourself, such as plastic surgery, weight loss, buying clothes and bags, studying for an MBA, and doing whatever you can to improve your status. Because for workaholics, what they care least about is money, and what do they care most about? It's face. As long as you make them look good, they will think you are good. Of course, what I said is a bit presumptuous. I believe that those real money-loving girls must be well versed in this and are far better than me in specific techniques.