5 traps that are most likely to tempt men to cheat

The divorce rate is so high nowadays, it is because many people choose to get married rashly, and then divorce for various reasons when they find that the marriage is not suitable. Men are usually the ones with problems and reasons. Let me tell you, there are all kinds of reasons why men cheat.

1. Getting married too young and making hasty choices

People in their early 20s are inexperienced and more emotional than rational. Many people do not know what kind of spouse they need. The reasons for marriage are often simple, such as because the other person has a good family background, good looks, a stable job, a good impression of the other person, or something the other person says makes them happy, or even simply because they have reached the age to get married...

After living together, it is difficult for both parties to establish feelings, and they become bored with each other over time, which sows the seeds of divorce. After middle age, they understand the type of opposite sex they need, and when they meet them, they often get along very well and want to live together.

2. After the conditions are good, I feel I have lost out.

Many men, when they first get married, have insufficient economic and social status, so they can only choose to marry girls with average conditions. With the improvement of economic conditions and social status, the level of women they come into contact with is getting higher and higher, and men's standards are also improved. As their wives age and lose their beauty, they become more and more dissatisfied and unwilling to accept it, which becomes the reason for cheating. Such men often like to marry women who are much younger than themselves.

3. The temptation of lust

Some people have never been in love before marriage, and after marriage they are busy with making a living, and never find the feeling of love. They live a dull life and feel cheated. When they meet a passionate pursuer, they are particularly easy to be tempted, indulge in the feeling of love, and lose their mind without caring about anything else.

4. The temptation of desire

After a long marriage, even if the spouses are beautiful, both parties will have a period of aesthetic fatigue; the couple can no longer find new ways to live, and their lives become an obligation and a ritual, lacking passion and becoming boring; sometimes one spouse wants to try a new way, but is often too embarrassed to say it because they are worried that the other spouse will resist, or even if they bring it up, the other spouse will flatly refuse...

Some novel and romantic ideas in the minds of men and women cannot be put into practice, resulting in a deadlock in their married life. Over time, they feel depressed and dissatisfied, and want to go out to realize their ideas and seek novelty and excitement. This is a particularly important inducement for extramarital affairs and one-night stands, and is also an important inducement for divorce.

5. The temptation of age

After all, when you are young, you have to work hard. Getting married, having children, working, and housing are all worry-free. Couples are busy working, and not only do they have no time and space for romance, but they also have a lot of quarrels. Both sides accumulate a lot of dissatisfaction and resentment towards each other, but because of the family management, these resentments are temporarily suppressed and ignored. When the family burden is reduced and the children grow up, both sides will look at each other and find each other more and more disliked and disgusted.

Just like someone said - he is particularly afraid of the night, at night his wife touches him with her hand, he will have goose bumps all over his body, very uncomfortable. At this time, one of the family members will go outside to seek care and comfort, which is particularly prone to cheating and divorce.

There are also some people whose financial conditions have improved and who feel that they treated themselves badly when they were young and that they should reward themselves well in middle age. Then they look at their spouse and find that he or she does not arouse their sexual desire. Being with an extramarital lover does not require them to work as hard and be dragged down by financial conditions as they did when they were young, and they can especially find the feeling of love. The only option left for them is divorce.

Every family has its own troubles. Of course, the rising divorce rate tells us that nothing in this world is certain. Even someone you have lived with for more than 10 years may leave you without saying a word one day. Therefore, everyone needs to be kind to themselves first and build their own capital - when you lose everything, it is meaningless to cry at the back of someone leaving.