What happens if a man doesn't have sex?

The so-called swelling and reduction of desire, also known as metabolic desire, refers to the fact that regardless of men or women, under the action of sex hormones, the reproductive organs of the body will naturally produce and metabolize substances. For example, men's semen and women's Bartholin's gland fluid will cause swelling after being filled up, and there will be an urge to metabolize the filled substances. This kind of sexual desire is particularly obvious in young people. After entering old age, it will gradually weaken due to the decrease of various secretions.

1. Self-consciousness drive, that is, the self-consciousness activity that comes from the love for the opposite sex, especially on the basis of emotional sincerity and passion, which is most likely to stimulate the desire for touch; 2. The perfection of reproductive organs. With the perfection of reproductive organs, the estrogen level in the human body will increase sharply, which is the driving force of sexual desire; 3. Increased sexual metabolism, that is, the substances produced by reproductive metabolism, such as male sperm, semen, seminal vesicle fluid, etc., female Bartholin's gland fluid, etc., a lot of accumulation 4. The feeling of sexual life, the happy experience and work experience of sexual life in the past, can form a classic conditioned reflex and become a kind of energy to stimulate future sexual desire. In short, although male sexual desire is a physiological function, it is also closely related to psychological disorders, education, etc., and is constrained by social status quo and social moral laws. Therefore, we need to have a proper understanding of sexual desire, and we should neither be reckless nor suppress the sense of repression and abstain from desire.

The whole process of getting hard is the nerves and blood vessels doing "gymnastics". The nerves are responsible for transmitting signals, and the blood vessels are performing postures. Due to the lack of sexual intercourse for a long time, the reproductive organs are temporarily "rusted" like a device with less oil, which inevitably leads to "accidents" such as information blockage and inflexible posture.

From a psychological point of view, if you lack emergency drills, you will panic and feel that you are willing but unable to do anything. You don't need to worry too much about this situation. You must first eliminate the psychological burden. Before having sex, you might as well give yourself a self-suggestion and believe that you and your wife can have secondary considerations this time. At the same time, try to train yourself, massage sensitive areas, and use masturbation to train your erection ability. In addition, if there is really no other way, it is recommended to use masturbation and other treatments. It is recommended to do it once a week. You can also train with your wife, and you should choose a person who is suitable for both of you. It is best to do it at a suitable time and in a good environment, with a posture that allows you to gaze at the other person's whole body and makes it easier for the active person to move. Before having sex, why not take a deep breath, focus on yourself and the present moment, imagine that the other person's aura has permeated your whole body, and feel the other person's touch as much as possible. At the same time, communicate your feelings with your wife in time during sex. If this method does not work, don't blindly take Viagra or other kidney-strengthening and yang-enhancing supplements, but go to the hospital for relevant treatment.