This is a fatal spot that women should never touch.

There is a common phenomenon in life called "falling out". It is not because the man has a bad temper, but because you have touched his weak spot. Not all men have the courage to divorce. When a man who does not have the capital to file for divorce is frequently touched by his wife, he will deliberately be indifferent or avoid his wife in action. Therefore, as a wife, you must know what the weak spot of a man is and do not touch it easily. The man will be grateful to you for the rest of his life.

Fatal flaw 1: Don’t call a man to urge him to go home when he is socializing.

Men's social activities are basically carried out around two stages: one is to pave the way for career, and the other is to pave the way for relaxation. For this reason, when men are socializing, they often receive calls from their wives urging them to stay together. Men know that it is out of concern, but they are embarrassed in front of their friends. Smart men will inform their wives in advance before socializing, and smart women will send a greeting text message to their husbands when they come home late.

Fatal flaw 2: Don’t get into trouble when a man is angry.

When men are upset, they don't like to complain, but prefer absolute silence. However, women are curious and concerned, and often like to ask questions when men are upset. This will not only fail to show real concern, but will make men more upset, and usually end in a quarrel between the couple. For this reason, smart women will often quietly accompany men when they are upset, and always be a qualified listener instead of a questioner.

Fatal flaw three: Don’t expose his shortcomings in front of friends and family.

Everyone has funny pasts and shortcomings. The reason why men are defenseless in front of their families is because they think there is no need to pretend in front of their families. However, in front of outsiders, men will occasionally put on a brave face. At this time, as a wife, you must not expose the true nature of the man, and don't think that your husband is hypocritical, because living in a social environment where "dogs look down on people", sometimes pretending to be strong can also buy some opportunities for yourself.

Fatal flaw 4: Don’t get intimate with a man when he is physically tired.

Men are not as lustful as women, but they definitely desire sex more than women. However, men sometimes have the will but not the strength. When a man is so tired from life that he doesn't even want to talk, as a wife, please don't force him to have sex. Not only will it be easy for him to reject you, but it is also more likely to force the woman to say something angrily like "you are useless", which will greatly damage the man's vitality.

Fatal flaw 5: Don’t speak ill of his family in front of a man.

Men can occasionally complain about their parents or siblings, but as a wife, you should not go along with them, let alone criticize their parents and siblings. Family affection will fade as a new family is established, but at critical moments, family affection will erupt with unpredictable power. Put yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if your husband frequently complained about your parents and siblings in front of you?

Fatal flaw six: Don’t search a man’s pockets or peek at his phone.

Men's pockets usually contain mobile phones, pocket money, cigarettes, and lighters. Even so, women should not touch men's pockets easily, because in the eyes of men, men's pockets represent dignity and trust. Women frequently checking men's pockets is equivalent to tearing up men's dignity and destroying the trust between husband and wife. There will be some seemingly ambiguous text messages in men's mobile phones, but in fact they are not ambiguous. Women's peeping will make themselves upset and make men feel that they are making trouble. Dare to ask, if a man cheats, can you stop him by looking at his mobile phone text messages? It is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a smart woman. Marriage is originally bumpy, but don't make fun of it, don't hurt it, and manage it with heart. It is the hard truth.

Smart women don't care about anything

1. Regardless of where the man goes:

Men have their own careers, work-related social events, and friends to socialize with, plus their own preferences and desires for their own space, so they should be allowed to be free. But you should also remind them to report home every time they come home late, so that you don't worry or suspect them.

2. Don’t care about a man’s wallet:

If a man has the ability to earn money, he has the right to spend it. A man has dignity only when he has enough money in his wallet. You should know how to save face for a man. As long as he can give you enough money to spend, don't have too many opinions. Of course, if he is willing to let you be the finance minister, you should know how to manage the household and manage all financial risks at home. Don't wait until you need to spend money urgently to find that you are short of money.

3. Regardless of the man’s information:

Mobile phones and QQ are the main culprits of conflicts between couples. Everyone has their own privacy. He is unwilling to tell you the so-called secrets, just because he doesn't want you to have wild thoughts and be unhappy if you misunderstand him. It can be regarded as a white lie! In fact, many misunderstandings are due to women's excessive sensitivity. Normal interactions are closely watched by you, and he will feel very awkward. A responsible man should believe him and will put family first like a woman. Occasionally, it is normal for men to have thoughts that go astray. Even if you have a confidante, don't be too jealous. That can prove that he is excellent and charming, and that your vision was not wrong. Women should be more sunny, confident, and happy in their hearts. Only then can they be more attractive and attract men's hearts. No man likes to come home tired after a day and have to look at a woman's face.