Revealed! The main reason why boys are "sissy"

In ancient times, "sissy" was a synonym for eunuchs, but now there are no eunuchs, so how can there still be "sissy"? In fact, this is mainly caused by psychological reasons. Generally, many people have developed such a habit since childhood, so what is it? Let us understand it together below! It seems that some boys don’t like their fathers. In fact, they are just expressing their strong need for fatherly love in a rebellious way. In psychology, it is called "father's love hunger syndrome."

Competition in modern society is becoming increasingly fierce. Due to work, most fathers have fewer and fewer opportunities to interact with their children. From infancy to adolescence, boys are often "surrounded" by mothers and female teachers. Masculinity has become a scarce element in their personality construction, and excessive femininity has become a hallmark weakness of modern boys.

In fact, children like fathers who are caring, considerate, amiable, loving and understanding.

A good father is not only a protector of his children, but also a close friend of them. He respects their initiative and independence, and provides them with necessary education and guidance. A good father is approachable and tolerant. His open-mindedness, cheerfulness, sincerity and generosity can give children a good opportunity to confide in him. When they tell him all their troubles, they will feel that his broad chest is so warm, comfortable and safe, which inspires their confidence and courage in life.

What children most want is for their fathers to truly get into their hearts, understand their thoughts, interests, hobbies, joys and sorrows, and thus understand and support their choices and pursuits. He not only cares about the child's physical condition, academic performance, whether he can be admitted to a key middle school or university, but also has sufficient understanding of the child's psychology, thoughts, and personality, and can consciously help him correct his shortcomings during his growth.