How to recognize a man's "sexual mood"

1. Men don’t like being treated like children

If you always treat your husband like a child, he will treat you like a "mother". Women often only focus on the needs of others and ignore their own needs. At first, men like to be taken care of, but the closer a woman is to the role of a mother, the more difficult it is for her husband to treat her sexually.

When your husband asks you where his keys are, force yourself to answer "I don't know" and let him find them himself. Don't pack his things or give him suggestions on what to wear. Treat him as a capable person and show that you fully trust him. Maybe at the beginning, your life will be a little chaotic, but soon he will understand everything you do and have a new understanding of you.

2. Men vent their emotions through sex

Men usually don't shed tears easily, and often use sex to vent their fear, pain, pessimism and other emotions. When they are in pain, sex is the only way to make them feel comforted and safe.

However, although the husband relaxed physically, his psychological tension did not ease, and the wife certainly did not receive more love from her husband.

So when you find your husband approaching you when he's upset, try to convince him that he can tell you everything. Tell him you want to hug him, then ask him what's bothering him so much, and you'll both feel closer.

3. Men place more emphasis on sex

Women value love, while men value sex more. If you want to keep your husband's heart, you must maintain your lasting sexual charm. You can often use sexy body language to tell your husband that you love him and you are waiting for his arrival. Most men have sexual fantasies and always want to innovate in the way of making love. You should discuss and practice with him. In this way, even though you have been married for several years, you can still maintain novelty and excitement. Remember, men always have the desire to "try something new".

4. Men want their sexual talents to be appreciated by others

A wife should praise her husband's sexual "talents" more often, such as praising him for being powerful and strong. Most men think it is important to maintain a strong image. If you think he is very capable in sex, he will feel that he is an extraordinary man and will be more eager to "show off his skills", which may give you a brand new sexual experience.

5. Men are two different people before and after sex

Many women complain that their husbands completely shut themselves off after sex, but they don't understand that men do this just to regain control of their emotions. Men believe that they can only fully express their passion during sex, and after sex they feel they should "restore their image as a man."