Men should face up to impotence and stay away from misunderstandings

1. Treating a few failed sexual intercourses in the early stages of marriage as impotence

This situation is quite common, especially on the wedding night, when the couple is too excited, tired, or even drunk; or because of the lack of cooperation between the couple in the newlywed stage, which causes temporary poor erectile function, leaving a shadow of their own poor sexual ability in their minds. This situation can easily lead to true impotence in the future.

2. Considering the inability to arouse a woman’s sexual desire and pleasure as impotence

This is a bigger mistake. As long as the man's penis can erect, ejaculate smoothly through sexual intercourse and reach orgasm, he is not impotent. One of the characteristics of male and female sexual function is that "men are faster and women are slower", so if the man has ejaculated and the woman has not reached orgasm, this is a physiological phenomenon, at most a problem of not harmonious sex life, and should never be considered impotence.

3. Believe that masturbation will inevitably cause impotence

Needless to say, masturbation is a common behavior among teenagers. Some people do worry that masturbation will cause impotence, and some people actually develop impotence afterwards.

But modern medicine has made it clear that the occurrence of this type of impotence is not essentially due to masturbation damaging the sexual organs, but rather it is precisely the mental and psychological factors caused by long-term masturbation. As long as the above-mentioned mental "knots" can be resolved, impotence will not necessarily occur.

4. Impotence is defined as the lack of obvious erectile response on normal days.

Many teenagers have reported that in the past, their penis would naturally become erect when they watched something arousing, but now this reaction is not obvious, so they think they have impotence.

Since there is no complete sexual stimulation from the spouse, including visual, auditory, tactile, and olfactory stimulation, and since there is no real sexual intercourse, it is impossible to diagnose impotence based solely on whether the penis is erect or not.

This kind of psychological erection that occurs in normal times has a very complex pattern and will change with a person's physique, thoughts, emotions, etc., and it may be better or worse at times. It is not an indicator of impotence.

5. Erectile dysfunction after changing sexual intercourse partners is impotence

Strictly speaking, this view is also incorrect. Some people have a normal sex life with their wives and good erectile function, but they become completely devastated when having sex outside of marriage.

This kind of "selective" impotence is not a real impotence patient. From one side, he has impotence, and from another side, his sexual function is good. It can be seen that this kind of people cannot be labeled as impotent casually.

6. Frequent ejaculation will inevitably lead to impotence

In fact, this concern is unnecessary. It is normal for a healthy unmarried man to ejaculate 1-2 times a month. 4-5 times or more is too much. This may be related to inflammation of the reproductive and urinary organs or certain lifestyle factors, such as wearing tight pants, sleeping in a hot area at night, excessive fatigue during the day, etc. However, modern medicine has made it clear that there is no necessary connection between ejaculation and impotence.

7. Premature ejaculation will eventually develop into impotence

People who hold this view can cite some specific examples of patients who initially showed premature ejaculation, ejaculating without contact or shortly after contact with the woman, and later even losing their erectile function. Such situations are often caused by psychological factors.

If premature ejaculation is effectively treated, the will is strong or the wife does not mind, impotence will not occur. Nowadays, modern medicine has not found any necessary connection between premature ejaculation and impotence.

Longan meat porridge

[Main ingredients] 15 grams of longan meat, 15 grams of red dates, and 100 grams of polished rice.

[Preparation] Put polished rice, longan meat and red dates into water, bring to a boil over high heat and then simmer for 30 minutes until the rice is cooked through, add appropriate amount of sugar. Take it once a day, morning and evening, but not in excess.

【Function】Strengthen the spleen and nourish the heart, replenish blood and calm the mind. Treat deficiency of both the heart and spleen, impotence and premature ejaculation, pale lips and nails, palpitations, insomnia and forgetfulness, poor appetite and loose stools, fatigue and weakness, and swelling of the lower limbs.

Blackberry wine

[Main ingredients] 100 grams of prickly berry, 500 grams of rice wine.

[Preparation] Wash and dry the thorn berries, remove the core, grind them, put them in a bottle, add rice wine, and seal the bottle. Shake once a day and soak for more than 7 days. Take 15 ml each morning and evening.

【Function】Strengthen the spleen and replenish qi, nourish the heart and blood. Treat deficiency of qi and blood in the heart and spleen, impotence, kidney fatigue, forgetfulness and insomnia.

Amber Walnut

[Main ingredients] 300 grams of walnut meat, 150 grams of white sugar.

[Preparation] Put the walnut meat in boiling water, add a small amount of refined salt and soak for 10 minutes, pick out the walnut skin, wash and drain. Put a small amount of water and sugar in the pot, boil until the sugar juice is thick, add the walnut meat and stir-fry until the sugar juice is wrapped around the walnut meat.

Change the pot, heat the sesame oil, put in the walnut meat covered with sugar juice, fry over low heat until golden brown, take out, drain the oil, and let it cool before eating.

【Function】Tonify the kidney and consolidate the essence, warm the lung and calm asthma. Treat chronic illness or elderly people with weak lung and kidney yang, impotence, spermatorrhea, frequent urination, backache and weak legs, cough and asthma. It can also be used for constipation caused by the elderly or physical weakness.

Conclusion: Men should be cautious when dealing with impotence and should not have different views on impotence. So, even if you really have impotence, you don't need to be afraid. The impotence porridge prepared by the editor above will be helpful to you.