What does it mean when a man ejaculates slowly?

About 8% of men have always had the problem of difficult or too slow ejaculation. Each 20-30 minutes or even longer ejaculation has been exhausting their wives and making their wives more and more irritable. In fact, their wives only need more than ten minutes, at most eleven or twelve minutes. Although they also speed up the ejaculation process by increasing imagination, the actual effect is very limited. So what does it mean for men to ejaculate slowly?

First of all, we need to see whether the disagreement between the two parties is really due to the long duration, or because the man has been in love for a long time but has not performed well, that is, he has not really touched the "itch" of the woman, which is naturally not easy to make the other party happy. Because such men usually do not know how to appreciate the other party's love like a rose and keep up with the other party's rhythm. They only care about themselves and spend all their time on how to get their own climax, without caring about the other party's experience. To sing the duet of husband and wife life well, the cooperation between the two parties is far more important than personal methods. The man can only open the gate of his own climax as soon as possible when he does well himself, that is, when he gets great motivation from caring, tasting, seducing and understanding the other party's reaction. In the young man's hard work, he actually showed his charm and style to the other party.

Secondly, men may have difficulty in orgasm, especially middle-aged men are prone to such problems, while young men rarely have such difficulties. After middle age, men's ability to get hard decreases, and the strength of the penis after erection is weak, so the friction stimulation caused by twitching is not obvious, and they often need stronger stimulation. In addition to physical problems, whether the relationship between the two parties is harmonious and tacit is also very important, so to solve this problem well requires joint efforts of both parties. Methods should be honed, and practice activities will increase ability. Men's difficulty in sexual pleasure is like facing a deep trench, which requires a brave leap. The more timid you are, the more difficult it is to jump over. The more you think, the heavier the psychological burden will be, and the situation will be more unsatisfactory.

At this time, you can lower the difficulty level first, and don't expect to succeed right away. You must create an environment without much mental pressure, and you can start with a narrower and shallower trench. Of course, you won't be anxious at this time. Generally, you start by masturbating by yourself, and then slowly explore and master the method of accelerating sexual sensation; then do it in front of your lover, and your lover can go from being a spectator at a long distance to being a spectator at a close distance, and then participate in and assist the man in masturbation; finally, the lover can masturbate the man with the penis close to the vaginal opening, and when the man is about to ejaculate, immediately insert the penis into the vagina and continue to masturbate until the man ejaculates. This type of gradual, progressive training process is often a practical solution.