Typical characteristics of giant baby boys

Nowadays, more and more women do not want to get married, because they think they can live a comfortable life with their own abilities, and finding someone to spend the rest of their lives with may add too much trouble to themselves, especially some men are giant baby men, and it is better to live alone than to find such a man. Indeed, giant baby men are becoming more and more common in society. Let's learn about the typical characteristics of giant baby men.

1. Omnipotent narcissistic male chauvinism

An omnipotent and narcissistic giant baby must only have himself in his heart: when you are tired and depressed, he snores like thunder; when you are depressed and wronged, he is completely oblivious.

In his self-righteous world, he always naively believes: If there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, just tolerate it; if a child cries, just comfort him; if there are chores at home, just take care of them; if you are tired, just drink some hot water.

He always thinks family life is so easy, despises your efforts and is annoyed by your complaints.

What he loves most is not the real you, but always your gentleness, your forbearance, and your compromise.

The "big baby men" are not looking for a bride, but a new "mother".

2. Living with wife: unable to take care of oneself

If you are financially able, it is better to hire a nanny. But if you are financially tight, the entire task of taking care of your husband's daily life falls on the wife alone.

When he is hungry, he waits for his wife to cook. When he is finished eating, he waits for his wife to wash the dishes. If his wife doesn’t wash his clothes, he has nothing to wear… He is a boss outside and paralyzed when he comes home. Before marriage, he lived with his mother, and after marriage, he lived with his wife. He narcissistically thinks that his wife should serve him in various ways.

A friend of mine is getting a divorce recently. There is no mistress and no evil mother-in-law. She said: Every day she comes home exhausted and sees her husband waiting for her to do something lazy. He is just like a baby who has no mobility, can't take care of himself, and can only call for his mother. She said she has had enough of being the babysitter of this baby!

3. Shifting the blame: You stubbornly think that it’s all your fault

shirking housework: the house is dirty because the wife is lazy;

shirking communication: blaming wife for bad temper if unwilling to communicate;

shirking responsibility for childcare: If the child is sick, it’s because the wife doesn’t know how to take care of him; if the child is disobedient, it’s because the wife didn’t teach him well. (No wonder, since he is a giant baby, how can he take care of the child?)

Finally, even the reasons for infidelity can be excused: if there is an affair, blame the wife for becoming a shrew; if there is prostitution, blame the wife for not being able to have sex during pregnancy. “Outside there are colorful flags flying, but at home there is a red flag flying high,” and the wife still has to praise you for being “responsible.”

If you think about it, how is this different from those naughty kids who never reflect on themselves every time they get into trouble and always say "he hit me first"?

4. Spiritual symbiosis with mother: Mamabao

You keep saying "my mother said" and "my father said"... Do you think you were born in an imperial family and everything your family says is an imperial decree?

When dealing with conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he doesn't stand on the side of the reason, but only on the side of the mother - he stubbornly thinks "you have to listen to my mother" and "my mother is so old, why do you care about her?" If you have an opinion about his mother, you have an opinion about him, and no one can break up the symbiotic relationship between them.

A mama's boy's marriage may just be based on one sentence: "My mom said I should get married," and you have to meet his mom's requirements: being able to take care of her son like a mom, even if you are exhausted.

Most women will quickly transform themselves in the process of becoming a mother, but many men, even if their children call them "Dad", will continue to bury themselves in games and work, avoiding their roles and responsibilities as men in the family.