Why men don't ejaculate?

Everyone knows that during sexual intercourse between men and women, if the man is more excited, he is likely to ejaculate, and most men's persistence time is relatively short. This short time will not cause premature ejaculation, but they are particularly easy to be sexually excited. If men can last for a long time without ejaculating, it is also a kind of happiness for female friends. So what is the matter with men not ejaculating?

1. The process of male ejaculation

1. When a man is sexually aroused, the blood flow into the penis greatly exceeds the blood return from the penis, causing a large amount of blood to accumulate in the corpus cavernosum of the penis, increasing the pressure, and making the penis hard, erect, thicker, and longer.

2. The contraction of the muscle fibers in the scrotal wall causes the scrotum and the testicles to rise and move closer to the body. This is similar to the reaction of the scrotum when it is stimulated by cold.

3. The penis slowly penetrates the female's private parts from shallow to deep. At this time, the embrace between the two becomes tighter. As the root of the penis goes deeper into the female's body, the space between the two sexes is reduced to a minimum.

4. After the penis is in close contact with the female private parts and is stimulated by friction, the sexual intercourse enters the continuous stage. The penis becomes further engorged and swollen, showing a dark red color, and the scrotum sticks closer to the body. The testicles also swell due to congestion of blood vessels. A small amount of mucus leaks out of the urethra.

5. After constant friction between the penis and the female private parts, most men reach orgasm within 2-6 minutes and ejaculation reflex occurs. Once the ejaculation reflex is triggered, it is irreversible and cannot be stopped. Ejaculation is intermittent, with an interval of less than 1 second, about 4-5 times of continuous ejaculation, and the amount of semen is 1.5-6mL. Less than 1.5 is too little semen and more than 1.5 is too little semen.

6 means too much semen, which is not conducive to the woman's pregnancy.

The relationship between orgasm and ejaculation Orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing. Adult men can ejaculate without sexual activity and orgasm, and those who do not ejaculate can also experience orgasm. Although modern medicine has proven that forcing yourself not to ejaculate is not good for your health, this theory has also become a motivation for special groups such as those with premature ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation, and vas deferens obstruction to muster up the courage to have sex. For example, for men with premature ejaculation, if they can properly control the time of ejaculation, they can increase the pleasure of the sexual plateau period and ultimately increase the intensity of the orgasm.

2. Tips for sex

(1) Good use of tongue

Talking is not just about oral skills, but has a deeper meaning: conversation. Oral skills are certainly a "gift" to women, but being willing to talk about sex is more important than that. Breaking down the barriers from time to time, asking her how she really feels, and understanding her source of pleasure from her perspective will benefit a lot. Also, don't forget to make sounds of pleasure during sex, don't be shy, she needs to know and feel that it is real pleasure.

(2) Contraceptive protection measures

Always remember to use reliable condoms. Although unobstructed intercourse is always the best option, the consequences can often be serious. Women may feel disrespected and hurt by men refusing to use condoms. After all, taking birth control pills will always bring some side effects. Unless you are planning to have a baby, that is of course another matter. Be sure to pay attention to contraception when seeking sexual excitement.

(3) Give her a passionate kiss

A wonderful kiss is the highest state of communication. Forget the mechanical prescribed movements - press her lips, slide the tip of your tongue in, then intertwine and sip deeply - a kiss that really makes her unforgettable is to "feel". Pay attention to her gentle breathing; when she takes a breath, capture her pair of watery eyes with your affectionate eyes, let her know how much you cherish her.