How it feels to break a junior high school girl's virginity

A survey found that compared with previous years, the age at which young people begin to have sexual experience is generally higher. Most of them have experienced it in junior high school or high school, and some have already started their personal sexual behavior in college. Sexual behavior is not terrible as long as it is correct. The girls' bodies are not fully developed in junior high school. If the hymen is broken at this time, it may cause harm to the body. We need to understand the issues related to the hymen.

FAQ

Function of hymen hole

Females will menstruate after reaching sexual maturity, and menstrual blood is discharged from the body through the hymen hole. If there is no such hole in the hymen, menstrual blood cannot be discharged smoothly. This phenomenon is medically called "occluded hymen". If menstrual blood accumulates in the vagina for a long time, it can flow upward into the uterine cavity, fallopian tubes, and even into the abdominal cavity, causing abdominal infection and abdominal pain.

How to know if the hymen is broken

Generally speaking, to determine whether the hymen is ruptured, a professional gynecologist needs to conduct an examination to confirm. It is difficult for women to judge whether the hymen is ruptured by themselves, and even for men who have sex with them. Most men and women often judge whether a woman's hymen is ruptured by whether there is vaginal bleeding. In fact, this method is unscientific, because there are many other reasons for vaginal bleeding in women, such as vaginitis, uterine fibroids, etc. In addition, some women's hymen ruptures and bleeds very little, and it does not necessarily flow out of the vagina.

Causes of ruptured hymen

The hymen is close to the vaginal opening, so it can be ruptured if you are not careful. There are many reasons for the rupture of the hymen. The most familiar one is that the hymen will rupture and bleed when a woman has sex for the first time. In addition, the hymen will also rupture and bleed when the following accidents occur. For example, some women may rupture their hymen when participating in high jump, horse riding, martial arts and other intense sports; and some women may rupture their hymen when washing their vulva, using internal sanitary tampons improperly, or even masturbating. Intense exercise, vaginal medication, and certain heavy physical labor can all cause the rupture of the hymen. Ignorance in childhood, inserting foreign objects into the vagina, and masturbation can also cause the rupture of the hymen.

How to correctly view the relationship between hymen and virginity

The traditional concept for a long time is that the hymen is the sign of virginity, and the rupture of the hymen means that the woman is no longer a virgin. This is a feudal idea. It is very one-sided to define virginity based solely on the rupture of the hymen. First of all, from the reasons for the rupture of the hymen introduced above, it is absolutely impossible to simply judge whether a woman is a virgin based on the integrity of the hymen. Some women have indeed not had sex, but their hymen has ruptured due to some accidents. In addition, some women have intact hymens, but they have indeed had sex. This is because the hymens of these women are looser and the holes in the hymens are larger, so the hymens will not rupture after sexual intercourse. In short, the rupture of the hymen has no necessary connection with whether a woman has had sexual intercourse, and it is even more impossible to judge whether a woman is a virgin based solely on the integrity of the hymen. The ultimate definition of "virgin" should be a female who has never had sexual intercourse with a male, that is, a male sexual organ has never entered the female's vagina.