Men get hard at the critical moment

Now for many people, sex is an indispensable thing in life. Through sex, lovers or couples can achieve an emotional exchange, and through wishes, it has a certain helpful effect on the aging of some reproductive organs. When the emotions of two people in love reach a certain level, they will have sexual thoughts, but in life some men find that their penis can't get hard when they have the idea. So what are the reasons for this early appearance? What methods need to be taken to solve it.

1. Nervous or afraid

In a busy society, stressful work emotions extend to daily life and affect the quality of sex life.

When having sex in a tense atmosphere, men are prone to premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction because their emotions and muscles cannot relax. Women are also prone to vaginal spasms or inability to reach orgasm when they are emotionally tense.

Fear is also one of the main reasons for some sexual problems. Whether it is fear of pregnancy, fear of premature ejaculation, fear of STDs, fear of being caught cheating, fear... these psychological factors of fear will not only prevent you from enjoying your sex life to the fullest, but will also cause problems in sexual intercourse.

2. Perfectionism

Perhaps influenced by mass media, the passionate sex scenes in pornographic films and movies seem to show that sex is so perfect, as if both parties can fully enjoy it every time and can reach climax together no matter what time, place or posture.

Therefore, many people think that if I don't have such a good sex life, there is something wrong. In fact, everyone's physical and mental conditions are changing every day. Good sex enjoyment not only needs to be learned, but sometimes it is hard to find. Therefore, the most important thing about your sex life should be whether you can coordinate and satisfy each other, rather than pursuing perfection every time.

3. Influence of Misconceptions

The idea that simply emphasizing male virility can lead to a happy and satisfying sex life has harmed many normal men. According to clinical medical statistics, the vast majority of men who think they have sexual dysfunction have completely normal sexual physiological functions.

However, under the widespread social stimulation of comparing size, length and duration, these psychological troubles will affect their performance in bed.

4. Lack of sexual knowledge

Modern people have access to information about sex through many different media and channels. However, most people seem to be more inclined to receive stimulation from sexual information rather than knowledge and understanding of sexual knowledge. Therefore, without healthy and correct knowledge and concepts, having sex will encounter many problems and difficulties.

Having a happy and wonderful sex life is everyone's hope and dream, but everyone has their own problems in sex, big or small. When you face these problems, if they are not caused by physical health, then perhaps you should carefully understand them from a psychological perspective. Sometimes the problem is solved in just a thought.