Many men have low emotional intelligence and don't know how to coax their girlfriends. Especially after marriage, as family chores increase, many girls tend to get upset. If boys can't take good care of their emotions, quarrels may occur. In fact, as long as boys pay a little attention to their behavior, they can make their wives happier. So, how should boys coax their wives to be happy? What are some tips? 1. Talk to her. Keeping silent with your wife will make her feel disconnected from you. Talk to her about your feelings. Be open and honest about your daily thoughts and feelings. Tell her when you feel insecure or uncomfortable about something. Let her know if she is hurting your feelings or making you happy. The more honest you are with her, the closer and happier you will be as a couple. If you have a hard time expressing your feelings, just do the best you can. If she sees that you're making an effort, she'll know how much you care. 2. Intimacy and passion for work outside the bedroom. While sexual intimacy is important, there are ways to show passion and intimacy outside the bedroom. Simply put, it will bring intimacy to your relationship by asking for advice when you have a problem at work. Show her how passionate you are about her by holding her in your arms and kissing her while she does the laundry. Cuddle her on the couch while you read a book or listen to music. The closer the two of you are, the happier your wife will be. Set aside time every day to connect with your wife. It can be first thing in the morning over a cup of coffee or tea when you talk about your plans for the day. It can be the time after dinner to talk about what happened to you that day. Try to make sure you check in with her every day to let her know you care. Passion and intimacy are different for every couple. Find what works best for your wife. Find times when you can connect with her. Talk to her about what she wants and needs to feel closer to you. 3. Do things for her in the bedroom. Sexuality is important in any strong marriage. Don't fall into a habit of having sex at the same time and place every week. Being married gives you time to explore and find out what she wants and what you need to satisfy her every desire. Ask her what she wants to do in the bedroom. Make things happier by trying something new and exciting. Tell her often how much you enjoy having sex with her. Let her know that you have the best sex of your life with her. 4. Show affection in public. Once you're married, some of the initial romance may be lost in a relationship. Bring back some of the early simple forms of affection. Hold her hand as you walk down the street together. Put your arm around her while you're out to dinner. Give her a gentle kiss while waiting to cross the street. These small moments of affection will let her know how much she means to you. She'll also know that you don't mind others knowing. Keep the relationship simple and appropriate. You don't want to be seen by everyone in the restaurant with her. Make sure everything you do is comfortable for both of you. 5. Listen to her. When your wife has a problem, listen to what she has to say. Don't talk to her, express your anger about the situation or talk about how you want to solve it. If she tells you she was praised at work for her work, don't start ranting about how unfair it is. You will no longer be listening to what she has to say and deprive her of the opportunity to vent. Let her get angry and complain to you and let her get frustrated. When she complains, let her know you are listening. Having you there to support her is what she wants and will make her happy. Keep your response simple and sincere. You can say something like, That's terrible, honey. I'm so sorry. This lets her know you understand how bad the situation is. |
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