No erection on wedding night

If a man is too excited on the wedding night, he may suffer from impotence and premature ejaculation. This is a normal phenomenon and you can try to have sex again at another time. On the wedding day, both husband and wife are usually tired and it is not suitable to have sex immediately. If you have sex immediately, you should take contraceptive measures. In order to relieve stress, both men and women should be considerate of each other. So, what are the reasons why men cannot have an erection on the wedding night? How to improve it?

1. Can't find the female portal

This is mainly because men know too little about physiological knowledge. They only have a fantasy about the female body in their minds, have no real physiological knowledge, and do not understand the psychological and physiological needs of women. This often makes you busy for a long time but not get the point. In fact, the structure of the female reproductive system is introduced in many places. You can first have a general understanding of it and pay attention to the difference between the urethra and vaginal openings. Also, for the first time, you should caress the woman moderately, with gentle movements and pay attention to the rhythm. Generally speaking, the female breasts, the clitoris where the vagina meets the vagina, the labia, the ear roots, and the thighs are all sexually sensitive areas. They can be stimulated moderately to make the female vagina open and moist naturally, which is convenient for the insertion of the penis and increases the success rate.

I also want to remind you that since it is your first time, you cannot find the position and insert it as quickly as an experienced person, so don't be nervous or too aggressive if you fail once or twice (if a woman has experience, she can guide you), just try a few more times, even if you fail this time, don't worry, it will be easier with experience. Don't expect yourself to be a child prodigy and eat better than adults the first time. So keep a calm mind. Remember that love leads to nature, care for your partner more, instead of being anxious.

2. Penile pain after sexual intercourse

Some men experience penis pain after intercourse. First of all, you don't have to be afraid. This is a normal phenomenon. The penis is filled with blood after erection, and some men have weak blood return function, which causes penis pain after intercourse (usually lasts 1 to 3 hours). This is not a big problem, so don't worry. Some people may experience this if they have too frequent intercourse. Just control yourself appropriately.

3. Rapid ejaculation, similar to premature ejaculation

This is a problem that troubles many men. During their first sexual intercourse, many young men often surrender before it even begins. This causes a great psychological shock to them, and they worry about their own incompetence and carry a mental burden.

In fact, this is a very normal reaction. Since it is the first time, men are in a highly excited state. In addition, the first sexual behavior usually occurs in the 20s, when sexual desire is at its peak, and the self-control ability has not been exercised. It is easy to lose control and let it go in the first actual combat. Don't be nervous when encountering this situation. It is necessary to accumulate experience. You can continue calmly next time, so that it will not affect your ability. And as the number of your sexual intercourse increases, you will find that you are getting stronger and stronger.

4. Penis weakness, similar to impotence

This situation often makes many men extremely frightened, thinking that they are impotent, or even having wild thoughts, thus forming a vicious cycle.

In fact, sex is a very magical behavior. The erection of the penis is stimulated by the mind, but it is not completely controlled by the brain. When having sex for the first time, men often have a lot of mental burdens, fearing that they will not perform well, fearing that they are not capable enough, just like taking an exam, very nervous. In addition, they worry that the woman will feel pain, worry that the other party will get pregnant, worry about being discovered, etc. These will make men pay too much attention to their penis and the surrounding environment, and their minds will not be focused. Any abnormality will make them daydream. The penis is a very strange organ. When you pay special attention to its performance, it often behaves shyly. To overcome this situation, we should have a certain level of mutual affection and understanding, and the environment in which the relationship takes place should be clean, quiet, safe and comfortable. This will prevent external factors from influencing your behavior.