What to do if you like a married man?

When people are young, they are young and ignorant, so both men and women will always make mistakes. Some young girls are often deceived by married men and they are hopelessly sad about them. As a result, not only they suffer, but also their physical and mental health may be harmed. In fact, falling in love with a married man, whether single or married, is the most miserable thing. So what should you do if you like a married man?

1. Clearly refuse

When he expresses his feelings for you, or when he expresses that he wants to have a relationship with you, what you have to do is to reject him at the first time. Don't give him any ideas, don't beat around the bush, and don't be so subtle and tactful. Just tell him that you don't want to. Of course there is no problem with being friends or siblings, but there will definitely not be any ambiguity or love relationship with him.

2. Don’t be indecisive

Many girls suffer because they are too embarrassed. They know that married men are not suitable for them, but they are too embarrassed to say no. When facing his pursuit, they either say "I'll think about it" or "We are not suitable for each other". In this way, in the eyes of a married man who likes other girls, you are just embarrassed, or you are hinting that he still has a chance. Girls must remember this.

3. Don’t have too much contact with married men

If you feel that he is pursuing you, or that he is obviously different from you, then you must remember to avoid having too much contact with him, because it is not scary if he pursues you. What is scary is that after a long period of contact, you will be moved by him and fall in love with him, then your rationality will collapse in an instant, and you will probably fall into a situation where you cannot extricate yourself from loving him without him pursuing you. So you must remember that when a married man is pursuing you, you must not have too much contact with him.

4. Don’t be alone with a married man on a date

Since he is pursuing you, it means that you must know each other, or even be very familiar with each other. You may have dinner together on weekdays, but after he expresses his pursuit of you, don't continue to be alone with him, including eating, going out, taking a walk, etc. Don't give him any chance to be close to you, let him completely give up the idea, this will also avoid other people's gossip, which is good for both of you.

5. Don’t have online contact with married men

It is best to set up his phone number. Don't answer his calls casually, let alone reply to any of his text messages. Another point is the Internet, such as QQ WeChat and the like. Many times, it is inevitable to meet and have contact in real life, such as colleagues, etc. Contact is inevitable, but you can completely ignore him on the Internet. Don't worry about what he is thinking, and don't try to find out what his feelings are for you from the Internet. Don't you understand what he thinks of you? As long as you don't want to accept the pursuit of a married man, remember not to have any contact with him on the Internet.

6. Face the constant entanglement of married men

Let me put it this way, a married man pursuing another girl is completely irresponsible. He is not only not being honest with his wife, but also not being honest with the girl he is pursuing. You cannot give the girl any guarantees, but you selfishly want to take the girl for yourself. If this is not selfishness and irresponsibility, then what is it? Don't feel embarrassed about his pursuit. If he is so embarrassed, what are you afraid of? If he continues to pester you after you reject him, then please look him in the face and express your rejection again.

7. Leave all evidence of the married man pestering you

In many movies and TV dramas, some scenes like this are speechless. When a married man pursues another girl, after the affair is exposed or discovered by his wife, he will say something like this: She is the one who is pestering me. When a girl meets such a man, she is really miserable. In the eyes of outsiders, it takes two to tango. People will ask why he is pestering you? His wife may know that he is the one who is pestering you, but guess who is on your side or on his side? So, when the pursuit of the married man becomes shameless pestering, you must remember to keep evidence, such as the messages he sent you, etc.

8. Let your family help you solve the problem but don’t make it too loud

When faced with the endless entanglement of married men, many girls choose to bear it alone, such as telling their colleagues or leaders at work, and not telling their families. This is not a good idea, because an unmarried girl has little experience after all, and it is not very convenient to handle some things. So after keeping the evidence, tell your closest family members about the matter and let them help you find a way to deal with it, but remember, don't make a big fuss unless it is absolutely necessary, otherwise you will also be hurt.