What to do if your father has an affair

Nowadays, there are many families that seem to be very harmonious, but in fact, one of the spouses may have cheated. If their children know that both spouses have cheated, it will cause a certain psychological shadow and burden on the children. Especially if the husband has cheated, if their children know that they will stand up for their mother, and sometimes even fight with their father. So what should we do if the father has an affair?

As for extramarital affairs, as long as you have had a good relationship in the past and your lover is kind and normal, then such extramarital affairs are mostly because of the problems in your marriage and the accumulation of various understanding and getting along problems. Extramarital affairs can be divided into different forms of desire and emotional needs. For extramarital affairs of desire, although the time is relatively short, both parties will maintain it, but such extramarital affairs are a bad habit and a problem of a person's quality, which is very difficult to solve.

As for the correct emotional needs, the reason for having an affair is that one is very normal and devoted in the marriage, but does not get the love and understanding he wants, and is in a state of depression for a long time. Then, after a long time, he will explode and meet someone who fills these emotional deficiencies, thus forming an affair.

So for you, first you should understand what kind of affair your marriage problem is, and then you can make targeted adjustments and solve the problem.

Seeing your mother suffer, you will feel more deeply than before you became a mother. I advise you not to be too sad. What is important now is to see what your mother thinks and whether she still wants to live. Men nowadays are really too much. When she was in trouble, she had to bear it with you. Now that the children have helped her and she no longer has to bear the burden, he wants to find his second spring. This shows his selfishness and ignorance (he doesn't think about which woman would be willing to accompany him when he has to bear a basket of responsibilities except his wife). You must be a strong backer for your mother and don't let her feel lonely.