How many times a week is appropriate for a 15-year-old to have sex?

Sex is an indispensable thing for people in daily life. Usually, it can help us relieve the aging of human organs and the emotional communication between couples. But no matter what, it must reach adulthood before it can be carried out. It is not suitable for minors, especially 15-year-old girls, to have sex. If you have sex at an early age, it will cause great harm to the body and is not conducive to the later physical development. Usually, having sex too early will cause wear and tear of the reproductive organs and a series of problems.

What are the dangers of sexual intercourse in adolescent males?

Reproductive organ injury

Adolescents' bodies are immature and their reproductive organs are still in the growth and development stage. The local skin and mucous membranes are delicate and easily damaged. We often receive calls for help from boys who have symptoms such as frequent urination, painful urination, and urgent urination. After careful questioning, we generally find that they have had frequent sexual intercourse in the past one or two days.

Delay in learning

After some boys have sex, their minds are filled with their girlfriends. They lose interest in studying and are often distracted in class. They only look forward to meeting their girlfriends after school, and their academic performance declines.

Classmate relationship is tense

Interpersonal relationships in middle school are often group-based, with three or five people usually gathering together to chat and exchange learning experiences or insights. However, after developing a close relationship with a person of the opposite sex, the two of you tend to stick together frequently, which reduces the opportunity to interact with more classmates and causes the relationship between classmates to become distant.

Inducement of sexual crimes

Not long ago, a 17-year-old middle school student called and said that he went to visit relatives at the weekend and took advantage of the adults being out to force his cousin to have sex. Later, the affair was exposed and he was beaten up by his uncle. He said that he did not do it on purpose and did not like this cousin. He had a favorite sex partner for more than half a year, and he did not know why he did such a thing at that time.

Cause psychological shadow

A couple of college students in Gansu, the male college student chose to run away when his girlfriend just gave birth. Because no one took care of them, both mother and child died in the rented house. A survey shows that among college and high school students, once they found out that their girlfriends were pregnant, 80% of boys had wanted to run away. Although this does not mean that boys are bad, it is just that they themselves cannot take responsibility. Under too much psychological pressure, they choose to run away as a conditioned reflexive self-defense - avoidance. But they certainly can't escape, just like the boy in Gansu, even if he hides to the ends of the earth, I am afraid he will never escape the condemnation of morality and conscience and emotional torture for the rest of his life. Will he still be happy in the future?

The beginning of love during adolescence is a normal adolescent reaction, and at this stage, contact with the opposite sex will have certain benefits to the body and mind, but you should not be overly indulged in the infatuation with the opposite sex.

The second is the infiltration and temptation of social information: a person is constantly influenced by sexual culture from childhood to adulthood. In real life, there are many emotional interactions between the opposite sexes, such as young men and women falling in love, getting married, and having children among relatives, friends, and neighbors; especially in movies, television, dramas, newspapers, and magazines, the descriptions of love are vivid, lifelike, and truly touching, often appearing in the eyes and minds of young people, enough to intoxicate young men and women, and from time to time stimulate their vague imitation and awakening of sexual emotions.

The third is the catalysis of external beauty and internal beauty: the opposite sex that teenagers are attracted to has a process from universality to specificity. Generally speaking, teenagers like to show their appearance, figure, knowledge, talents and excellent qualities in front of the opposite sex. The aesthetic appreciation of the opposite sex is mainly reflected in the two aspects of external beauty and internal beauty. Everyone has a love for beauty, and it is human nature. Some people say: people can't even control themselves from looking at the beautiful opposite sex a few more times. It can be seen how attractive beauty is. It can also promote the generation and development of teenagers' good feelings for the opposite sex.

Teenagers' attraction to the opposite sex is an outward expression of their inner feelings and a healthy emotional response that is bound to occur during the start of adolescence. This emotional response can enhance friendship and understanding among teenagers.

First, we must establish lofty ideals, take learning as the main purpose, cultivate good qualities such as self-esteem, self-love, self-reliance and self-discipline, treat adolescent sexual psychology and physiological changes with an objective attitude, master scientific sexual knowledge, and do not indulge in obsession with the opposite sex.

Second, we must prevent premature love. Premature love is vague, simple, different and unstable. Teenagers imitate adult love and cannot distinguish between friendship and love, which delays the best learning opportunity; and premarital sex has made many girls in their prime become teenage mothers. Premarital pregnancy seriously damages the physical and mental health of teenagers and will also affect their future life path.

Third, we should strengthen physical exercise. Adolescence is a good time for physical growth. Physical exercise can make people cheerful and positive, which is conducive to releasing adolescent sexual repression and passing through adolescence smoothly.

It is very normal for teenagers to have sexual impulses towards the opposite sex during their growth process. However, they must face this sexual impulse correctly and not go astray because of it.

The sexual psychology of adolescents lacks profound social content at first. It is basically an instinctive effect brought about by rapid physiological changes. It seems that they are attracted to, like and love the opposite sex. However, this budding of sexual love seems to be covered with a hazy veil. Many young men and women do not know much about sex, but have a strong sense of mystery about sex.

Sexual interest, liking and admiration are mainly due to the attraction of the opposite sex. It is on this basis that sexual awareness will gradually become stronger and more mature in the vague and chaotic psychological changes.

(ii) The intensity of sexual consciousness and the decorativeness of its expression

The most prominent psychological characteristics of adolescence are its closedness and strong desire for understanding, which also leads to the decorativeness of their sexual psychology. On the one hand, they attach great importance to their impression and evaluation in the eyes of the opposite sex, but on the other hand, they are reserved, shy and cold; they are very interested in a certain opposite sex in their hearts, but on the surface, they act as if they are indifferent, disdainful, or avoid the other sex intentionally or unintentionally; sometimes they show that they hate the intimate actions between men and women, but sometimes they actually hope to experience it themselves.

Experiencing these contradictory psychological manifestations often causes them to have various conflicts and distress.

(III) Sexual turmoil and repression

Adolescence is the period of the most vigorous sexual energy in a person's life. However, since many young people are not mentally mature enough at this time, they have not yet formed a solid sexual morality and love concept, and their self-control ability is very weak, so they are easily affected by external factors and become uneasy.

Real life is rich and colorful, with a variety of sexual information, bad film and television shots, pornographic books and magazines, and especially the influence of the Western bourgeoisie's ideas of sexual liberation and sexual freedom, which can easily lead to the wrong reinforcement of the sexual consciousness of some young people, and make them indulge in love and even commit sexual mistakes and crimes. On the contrary, another part of the young people's sexual energy cannot be properly channeled and sublimated, resulting in excessive repression. A few people may even express it in distorted ways and abnormal behaviors, such as toilet literature, homosexuality, voyeurism or fetishism.

(IV) Differences in sexual psychology between men and women

The sexual psychology of adolescence is also significantly different due to different genders. In terms of expressing feelings to the opposite sex, men are more obvious and passionate, while women are more reserved and deep; in terms of inner experience, men are more curious, happy and mysterious, while women are more reserved and deep.

Men are often panicked, shy and at a loss; in terms of expression, men are generally more proactive, while women tend to take a suggestive approach.