How to treat psychological impotence

In life, many men suffer from psychological impotence. The so-called psychological impotence means that men cannot overcome the hurdle in their hearts. They always feel that their penis cannot be hard, and they have no confidence in themselves regardless of the stimulation. Therefore, for such patients, psychological treatment is more important, and their sexual partners should give them appropriate encouragement. So how should psychological impotence be treated?

1. Coordinate the understanding of sex and relax anxiety (3-5 days): Introduce the knowledge of sex physiology and psychology, male and female response characteristics and sexual behavior to both parties in detail. During this period, the couple should live separately and not have sexual intercourse to eliminate the anxiety caused by sexual intercourse failure. At the same time, some simple relaxation training can be carried out to further eliminate anxiety and tension.

2. Non-sexual physical and emotional communication (3-5 days): After the previous step, both parties should lie naked together, kiss, hug and touch the whole body, but do not touch the breasts and sexual organs, and communicate with each other in an intimate way. The purpose of these activities is to improve the sensitivity of various parts of the body rather than to satisfy the need for sexual intercourse, so sexual intercourse is not allowed.

3. Touching sexual organs and applying masturbation techniques (2-3 days): At this stage, both husband and wife should find the best stimulation points of their own sexual organs. The best stimulation points for men are generally the frenulum of the penis rather than the glans penis, while for women, they are mostly the clitoris and vaginal opening. When touching each other's sexual organs, non-verbal hints should be used as the main method, and less talking should be done to avoid diluting the pleasant enjoyment. At this stage, sexual intercourse is still not allowed, but the euphoria of the body and mind should be experienced as much as possible, and the sexuality should be gradually concentrated on the sexual organs.

4. The woman strokes the penis rhythmically to make it erect. When it is erect and hard, the woman stops stroking and kissing, and lets the erection subside. After repeated attempts, when the penis is erect and hard and lasts for a long time, the woman takes the upper position to conduct tentative sexual intercourse. When both parties reach a satisfactory climax of sexual excitement, they take the positions they like to have sexual intercourse. After a few days of repetition, a new level of sexual behavior pattern is formed.

5. The use of hypnosis to treat psychological impotence should be performed by psychologists and doctors. First, the psychological causes of psychological impotence should be analyzed in detail for the patient and his spouse, necessary explanations and comfort should be given, misunderstandings and concerns about sexual life should be eliminated, and the couple should be required to temporarily separate. Secondly, hypnotic suggestions should be given to patients with psychological impotence to make them relax and fall asleep, improve their mood, and eliminate anxiety. Thirdly, when the patient is emotionally relaxed, instructions are given to him in a hypnotic state that his penis can erect. After several hypnosis treatments, the function of the penis can be well restored, and it can be normally excited and erect.

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