How to treat my husband’s bad temper?

What matters for couples is to be calm and composed, but some people seem to be born with bad tempers. If people with bad tempers don't know how to communicate, it's easy for couples to quarrel over trivial matters. Some families quarrel a little every day and a big quarrel every three days. Frequent quarrels can easily hurt the relationship between husband and wife. If the husband has a bad temper, how can we treat it? The following is a specific method to treat the husband's bad temper.

Men with bad tempers and irritability should be accepted

That means not being picky, blaming or complaining about your husband, accepting his current personality, treating him calmly regardless of his strengths and weaknesses, and getting along with him with a trusting, encouraging and positive attitude. This will allow him to be happy mentally, gain satisfaction and self-confidence, and thereby gain the motivation to do better.

Men have bad tempers and are easily angered. You should learn to respect him.

There is an old Chinese saying, "A gentleman will die for his confidant." I think this saying is also applicable to the relationship between husband and wife. If a wife regards her husband as a confidant, trusts him completely, and respects him, it can enhance his self-esteem and stimulate the good side of his nature. For example, a man who is known to have a bad temper and vulgar behavior has unknowingly become a stable and kind husband after marriage. When others asked him the reason, he said, "My wife trusts me. She never blames me, but just believes in me blindly, which makes me feel embarrassed not to change." From this, we can see that "to change a willful or cruel person, there is no better way than to show your affection to him and let him change himself."

If a man has a bad temper and is easily angered, you need to help him change.

People with bad tempers find it difficult to control their emotions, and tit-for-tat confrontation will only make them angry and even more violent. Therefore, if you understand their temper and master some ways to suppress and deal with their temper, you can gradually change their temper.

Men with bad tempers and irritability should learn to deal with them step by step.

You can write a diary to record the reasons and process of his temper and tantrums. Organize it every week to see what things easily make him explode and lose control of his emotions, so as not to touch his anger switch, reduce the causes of his outbursts, and prevent problems before they happen. (You can also put the diary next to the toilet to remind him!) 7. Observe carefully to see what things, people, or your own attitude can best scare his temper when he is angry, and then "use the force to fight the force" and "fight evil with evil"!

Men with bad tempers and irritability should know how to protect themselves

You should know that it is very difficult to completely change a bad temper, which may be influenced by the family environment he grew up in. It is difficult to change a person's nature. If he has a bad temper and has a long-term tendency to domestic violence, don't expect him to bring about much change. It is recommended that you use legal means to protect your personal safety, or even resolve it through divorce.