Male chauvinism in love

Male chauvinists are self-centered and demand their family members, especially their wives, to obey their arrangements and instructions, so that they can be satisfied. Male chauvinists are often more domineering, even when they are in love, they will show this in many aspects, such as eating, going out and dating, and the boys will make all the decisions, and will not listen to or take the girls' opinions.

1. Autocratic: Dating, dining, where to go, etc. are all decided by one person

Men who are more chauvinistic make all the decisions on small matters such as dating, dining or where to go alone, without any conscious effort to consult with their girlfriends. They just want their girlfriends to be there. Such men may say that they are thinking about you and don't want you to work hard, but in the final analysis, they are dictatorial and authoritarian.

Love is a matter between two people. If he takes care of everything for you, such as where to go on a date, what to eat today, where to travel, and even which friends to invite to your wedding, what kind of banquet to hold, and what kind of wedding dress to buy, do you think such a boyfriend is interesting? Is such a love life interesting?

2. Strong possessiveness: not allowing you to have any contact with other opposite sex

Men in love are naturally possessive and cannot tolerate any injustice. Male chauvinistic men are even more possessive than ordinary men when they are in love. They do not allow their women to have any contact with other men, even if it is just normal conversation or joking.

3. Strong desire for control: to keep an eye on your movements at all times

When a male chauvinist is in love with you, he has a strong desire to control you. He wants to know everything about you at all times, and he would like to install a GPS on you (some male chauvinists may actually do this). Of course, this desire to control you is out of good intentions, because he wants to care about you and doesn't want you to make any mistakes.

In this case, women who can understand (like to be abused) will naturally enjoy this kind of care and feel that such men are very safe. However, most women cannot understand this and do not want to be controlled by him like a pet at any time.

4. Nosy: They are eager to help you make decisions on big and small matters

From a certain perspective, a male chauvinist is actually a nagging little woman. She especially likes to meddle in other people's affairs. No matter whether your affairs are big or small, she always likes to interfere and rush to make decisions for you.

Although sometimes it seems manly for a man to make decisions for you, it is really scary if he has to make decisions for you on both big and small matters. It makes you feel like you have no sense of existence.

5. Abnormal behavior: ordering women around and treating them as human beings

Some male chauvinists are complete scumbags. They get angry and angry outside, and take all the grievances they suffer out on women. Women are their punching bags. He is the master and the woman is the servant. The woman should take care of all the housework, and he is used to sitting back and enjoying the fruits of his labor.

Outside, he yells at women to protect his "dignity" as a man, and women can only swallow their anger; he overbearingly demands that women treat him well, but he does not give in return. He preaches the "Three Obediences and Four Virtues" in front of women, asking them to learn some virtuous and humble examples; he keeps a close eye on women, suspects women, and is always worried that women will be unfaithful to him.