How to find a wife, a few "unspoken rules" for men to find a wife

Men all hope to find a wife who is suitable for them, with whom they can live together, hold hands, and grow old together. So what kind of woman is a good wife? First of all, you must like her and there must be love between the two of you, because love is the cornerstone of marriage. In addition to love, there are some rules for reference.

1: People are selfish. In the emotional world, men are more narrow-minded than women. A woman's ex-boyfriend or even ex-husband is definitely an emotional taboo for men. In fact, most men can tolerate themselves being unfaithful, but they cannot tolerate their girlfriends or wives cheating on them. Reality tells us that it is difficult for a cheating woman to be forgiven by a man. Although women may feel unfair about this, this is the way of the world. Therefore, being emotionally loyal is the first step for men to choose a woman.

1: In the era of one-child policy, more and more women stay away from the kitchen, and either eat out or go to the homes of their parents-in-law or their own parents for meals. You know, eating out is too expensive, your parents-in-law and your own parents cannot protect you for your whole life, and you are not free to eat with your elders. Therefore, if you want to keep a man's heart, you must first keep his stomach. Although cooking is not a woman's specialty, a woman who has some experience in the world of cooking is a perfect wife.

1: Not all men want their wives to be housewives. Women should have their own careers. On the one hand, this helps them avoid being out of touch with society. On the other hand, it also helps them make a contribution to the family finances. Reality tells us that women with independent careers are more likely to be respected by men in family life.

1: Women who are stingy after marriage do not want their husbands to work too hard in the process of building their careers. In fact, stingy women will not make men grateful, because stingy women are equivalent to squeezing men out of their efforts in marriage, thereby weakening their sense of existence. Smart women must learn to spend money in moderation and demand in the emotional realm. Why do people who have been together for a long time feel reluctant to break up? It is because they don’t want their efforts to go to waste. Therefore, women who know how to make men pay are more likely to make men unable to stop.

1: Men don’t like women who go against them, and they don’t like women who are too submissive. A woman who goes against them will make a man feel that she is too strong, and a woman who is too submissive will make a man feel that she has no ideas. People are all cowards, so in the game of marriage, while women stick to their bottom line, they must listen to men’s suggestions on some things and don’t be stingy in giving certain praise to men for certain correct decisions.

1: Don't compare the success of other people's husbands with your husband's failure, don't be too sad and complain about the current state of life, and don't sigh or shed tears often when facing the pressure of life. Because negative energy will invisibly convey a sense of oppression to men, making men feel unhappy living with you, and various pressures outside the family will make men feel suffocated. Life gives us burdens, and we must learn to reduce pressure under the burden.

1: Women need to be kept in captivity, while men want to be let loose. Many women like to stick to men. Before marriage, men will allow women to stick to them because they know it is not easy to find a woman they like to marry. After marriage, men dislike women's stickiness because it is their nature. Therefore, a woman who can give men full trust and enough personal space can make men feel comfortable.

1: Everyone knows that there is no need to pretend to be rich, but in fact everyone is fighting for the so-called face and life. Although the most direct way to show face is the social status after struggle, not everyone can exchange for a successful result after struggle. Therefore, women should learn to give men enough face in front of relatives and friends. That is not a hypocritical performance, but the minimum etiquette to protect their husbands. Ridiculing your husband in public will not only tear up the man's face, but also bring you the label of a shrew.

1: Husband and wife are the core of marriage, but marriage is not just a matter between two people. Men hope that their family will be harmonious. A kind and filial wife can provide a warm and stable harbor for men. She is the object of every man's most desired heart.

1: Men, deep down, are repulsive to fat women, ugly women, and overly beautiful women. Please believe that people are visual animals. If your appearance cannot attract men's attention, even if you are excellent in other aspects, men will not give you a chance to love. Therefore, a well-proportioned figure and acceptable looks are the first step to establish a relationship. It needs to be emphasized here that men reject overly beautiful women because they are not confident.

, but a choice. So there is a saying that goes like this: What kind of woman a man chooses as his wife is equivalent to choosing what kind of life he will live.