What should you do if a man changes his mind? How can you win back a man who has changed his mind?

Many women believe that men are completely different people after marriage than before marriage. What's worse, men may change their minds and look for someone else after marriage, which is really hard to accept. Why does this happen, and what should women do?

How to win back a man who has changed his mind

1. Stop being angry with him, stop saying anything harsh, and stop trying to abuse yourself or the other person; e.g., stop saying things like "I know you don't love me," "I know you've changed your mind/felt attracted to other girls," "Do you really hate me so much?" "You wouldn't be sad if I died." Don't say anything that you think will make the other person unhappy, or that will make you feel better or lessen your grievances.

2. Even if you know that the other person is lying to you, don't point it out. Don't use your intelligence to expose the other person. Just know it in your heart. For example, if you accidentally discovered that he went to dinner with a female colleague, but he told you that he was working overtime that day, you can just pretend that you don't know. If he tests you, just smile and don't tell him that you know about it, unless you have made up your mind to never have anything to do with him again.

3. Even if the other party accuses you out of nothing, accept it completely and don't make excuses. For example: If he starts to dislike you, saying "you are not a teacher/civil servant", "my parents don't like you", "you are too short", "you are not a virgin", "you are not pretty", don't fight back. Just tell him gently: I don't want to be like you say, but this is the reality, and I accept myself now.

4. Dress yourself up, go hang out with your friends who you have ignored for a long time, make yourself happier, and don't report your whereabouts to him too much. For example, arrange to go outing on the weekend, then turn off your phone, don't agree to his impromptu date, if he wants to find you, he will find you naturally, if he wants to ask you out, he will find another time, don't worry about missing his call or date.