Why are humorous men the most popular?

For a man, appearance is often not the most important thing. What makes a woman interested in a man is his upbringing, such as his humor. So why do so many people like humorous men?

Why do many people like humorous men?

Humor is often a manifestation of knowledge and cultivation, and is a kind of elegant demeanor. Everyone likes humor because it brings joy and happiness to people. Everyone yearns for humor because it can make people extraordinary and charming. Many famous people in the world have a sense of humor. Deng Xiaoping once said to people: "I am not afraid even if the sky falls, because there are tall people to support it." Chen Yi is also a master of humor. He always speaks with witty remarks. Even when he was in the midst of war and in desperate situations, he was still optimistic and humorous and wrote immortal poems such as "Three Chapters of Meiling".

Humor comes from a good attitude and optimistic personality. A person with a sense of humor is more likely to gain trust and love in the process of interacting with others. German writer Brar said: "What makes people laugh is funny. What makes people laugh after thinking about it is humor." A person with a sense of humor can find some "dramatic factors" in his unpleasant situations, so as to achieve psychological balance. No wonder some scientists vividly compare humor to a physical and mental detoxifier that strengthens the body and regulates emotions. It is the most loyal and most cost-effective personal health doctor. Learning humor can reduce psychological frustration and is beneficial to inner peace. Humor is a way to protect "self" and a good way to cultivate oneself.

Humor is a good medicine for health:

Humor is always associated with laughter. Laughter not only makes people feel happy and uplifted, but also eliminates worries and stabilizes emotions. Physiologists have found through research that laughter can cause the brain to secrete a happy substance - endorphins, which can make people feel happy, regulate nerve function, increase lung capacity, promote blood circulation, improve cardiopulmonary function, and speed up systemic metabolism. Humor can also activate brain cells in a suppressed state, dilate blood vessels, effectively improve the brain's blood supply and oxygen supply function, and enhance the vitality of brain cells. Therefore, humor is often applied in medical practice. For example, some foreign doctors often advise patients with depression to read more humorous novels and comedies, or to perform "laughter therapy" once a day.

Laughter is not only a reflection of good mood, but also a manifestation of mental health. The ancients said: "Longevity is sought in joy." Those who can laugh are healthy, and those who can enjoy themselves live long. There are also many examples of humor therapy in China. In the Qing Dynasty, an inspector of eight prefectures suffered from depression. After a long period of treatment, he was introduced to the famous doctor Zhao Haixian in Xinghua County, Yangzhou Prefecture for treatment. Doctor Zhao remained silent after taking the pulse. The inspector repeatedly asked, and Zhao replied slowly: "In my opinion, your illness is irregular menstruation." The inspector couldn't help laughing and said, "Quack, quack," and then left. After that, the inspector would laugh and ridicule whenever he talked about this matter with others. In the laughter again and again, his illness was cured without medicine. When he came to his senses and thanked Doctor Zhao, Doctor Zhao explained to him the principle of curing the disease by relaxing the mind without taking any medicine. It can be seen that humor is a good medicine for health.