Say goodbye to postpartum sexual apathy and make you full of sexual interest

The mother is very tired during the ten months of pregnancy, and the father is also very tired during the ten months of "abstinence". After finally waiting for his wife to finish her confinement, he wanted to have sex, but found that his wife was frigid. Postpartum frigidity is a problem that many new mothers will encounter. What is the reason that makes the postpartum sex life fall into the embarrassment of lack of passion?

Causes of postpartum sexual indifference

1. The hormone secretion of the new mother's body after childbirth affects the vaginal secretion;

2. The role change of new mothers is the most important reason for postpartum sexual indifference;

3. Production wounds and physical discomfort;

4. Feeling inferior about changes in one’s body shape.

What to do about postpartum sexual apathy?

As a wife:

1. Women should not indulge in love with their children after giving birth. Women should take some time away from their children every day to allow their husbands and family to take care of the children and try to spend more time alone with their husbands.

2. Women do not need to lose confidence in themselves because of their deformed body shape after childbirth. Women can do appropriate exercise to speed up the recovery of their body shape. Remember to pay attention to proper diet and nutrition, adequate sleep and rest, and maintain a good mood.

3. Breastfeeding is encouraged. This can keep women's sexual response ability at a certain level.

4. Women who suffer from severe postpartum sex hormone deficiency can use medication under the guidance of a doctor.

As a husband:

1. Mental and psychological treatment First, the husband should be patient and considerate of his wife's feelings. Do not indulge in your sexual desire and behavior, do not be anxious, and let your wife feel cared for and loved.

2. Cater to maternal emotions. Secondly, the husband should actively help his wife share the work of taking care of the baby, understand his wife's care for the baby and maternal emotions, and it is best to be more meticulous and considerate than his wife. This will not only make the wife trust and rely on you, but also reduce her psychological pressure, thereby rekindling the love between husband and wife.

3. Postpartum sexual intercourse induction therapy: the husband can also do some fun activities before having sex to induce his wife. Relieve her nervousness through kissing and caressing. You can also ignite the spark between the two through words and actions.

4. Change the position. After obtaining the wife's consent, the husband can slightly change the position, location and time of sexual intercourse to enhance the novelty of sex.

Postpartum sexual apathy requires both the husband and wife to face it together, so that they can quickly enter a happy sexual life.