Men and women should be fully prepared for their first time

Whether it is a man or a woman, they all attach great importance to the first time and hope that their first time is perfect. So what should they prepare before having sex for the first time?

Environmental preparation

Environmental preparation is a general term for the things and sexual environment that may be used during sex. First, choose a place with enough privacy. If it is at home, it is best to ensure that you will not be disturbed in the room. If possible, it is best to be in a house with only the two of you. For example, a clean hotel room is a good choice. It can ensure that no one will suddenly visit and disturb you during the whole process.

If possible, you can decorate the room a little bit and dim the lights in the room. The dim light can increase the hazy and sexy feeling. Lighting an aromatherapy lamp can also make you feel more relaxed.

In addition to a comfortable room environment, it is best to prepare lubricant, condoms, tissues and warm water before going to bed. These things should be placed within your reach so that if you need any of them during the process, you don't have to pause or leave the bed.

Lubricant is not necessary, but it may be used, so be prepared. During the first sexual intercourse, it may be difficult for the man to enter. At this time, you can use some lubricant appropriately to reduce the pain of the woman.

Condoms are necessary. Although the chance of getting pregnant the first time you have sex is not that high, taking contraceptive measures should be a must for every sex. The best contraceptive method is for men to wear condoms. Especially for those who are inexperienced in sex, they must take good contraceptive measures.

Tissues are convenient for wiping sweat and cleaning the bodies of both parties. After sex, both people will generally sweat, and some men sweat very badly, so it is very necessary to prepare a box of tissues at the bedside.

A cup of warm water can help you replenish your body's water in time after sex, so that you can rest better and have a good "after-sex" experience. Of course, these things are just general preparations, and everyone can prepare more things according to their actual situation. It's always right to be prepared.

Mental preparation

For people who are having sex for the first time, psychological preparation is more difficult than environmental preparation. First of all, you need to think clearly whether you are really ready for your first sex. Although modern society has a very open concept of sex, it is not ruled out that some people have traditional ideas. Secondly, don't imagine the first sex too beautifully. Generally speaking, if it is the first time for both parties, the lack of sexual experience will most likely make the love process not too smooth.

For women, the first time sex will be accompanied by pain, so you must communicate well with your partner and ask him/her to be gentle. Don't expect the first time sex to bring you a great feeling. If your partner is not experienced enough, it may lead to a hasty ending.

For men, it is normal for them to have premature ejaculation during their first sexual intercourse because they are too excited and cannot control their ejaculation. Do not think that there is something wrong with you. Before you start, you can communicate with your partner and understand their thoughts, which will help both parties get into the mood faster. This is also a kind of psychological preparation.