How to control erection?

After men enter puberty, sex hormones are continuously secreted in the body, and various physiological functions undergo mutations, causing the reproductive organs and their functions to develop and mature rapidly. During the period of passionate love, psychological activities such as sexual sensibility, emotions, memory and imagination are extremely active. In fact, impulse is a desire or impulse for sexual behavior. There are many reasons for sexual impulse, so how can men control sexual impulse?

So how do men control their sexual impulses?

First of all, we should dispel the mystery of "sex". Due to historical reasons, people in my country are afraid of talking about "sex", and the idea that "sex is lust" is deeply rooted in some people's minds. Therefore, young men should read some books that introduce sexual knowledge, enhance the ability to restrain sexual impulses, and reduce the mystery of "sex".

Secondly, young men should strengthen their willpower. When sexual desire arises, they should use corresponding methods to remind and hint themselves to relieve sexual impulses. In addition to talking about love with a girl, they can also participate in some beneficial social and entertainment activities with her to distract attention from sex and sublimate love.

Third, use masturbation appropriately. When young men are out of control due to sexual passion, as long as they treat masturbation as a hobby and do not harm others or society, it can be an emergency method to regulate and channel sexual impulses.

Fourth, when you are with a girl, you should reduce the amount of sweet talk and overly intimate actions. From a physiological point of view, caressing, kissing, and hugging are most likely to arouse a man's sexual desire. Therefore, young men should be good at self-control.

As Shatubia said, "Love is like a coal. Once it burns, you have to find a way to cool it down. If you let it burn freely, it will burn a heart." Because sexual behavior involves not only responsibility to oneself, but also responsibility to others, and even has an impact on society. The degree of will control in passionate love is a measure of whether love is mature.

Premarital sex is a deviant behavior that goes against social morality during the love stage and is very harmful to the development of love.

First, premarital sex is illegal.

In our country, sexual life is a legal right of married couples and an important part of married life. It must be protected by law and is not something that can happen casually between any man or woman.

Second, premarital sex can easily lead to frustration.

There are two possible outcomes for love: either the lovers will end up together, or they will go their separate ways. If sexual relations occur, once one party gets tired of the old and falls in love with someone new, or the relationship ends for some other reason, it will cause serious frustration and blow to the other party. For young women, it will bring even greater pain.

Third, premarital sex may cause unhappiness in married life.

Some young men hold the idea that "we will be husband and wife in the future anyway" and have sex with girls without registering their marriage. But later, the girl's faults gradually become exposed, and the young man feels dissatisfied, but "the rice is cooked", it is too late to regret, so he has to get married reluctantly. Similarly, some girls rashly succumb to the sweet words of men, and although they feel that the other party is not ideal after a long time, they have to compromise and get married reluctantly for the sake of their reputation. Such a marriage without foundation cannot be said to be happy.

Finally, I want to tell you that true love should be mutually respectful and noble, not just emotional impulse and whim. In the midst of passionate love, you should understand yourself, love each other, and use reason to measure the depth of passion. The wider the scope of a person's non-sexual love, the more noble his sexual love will be.