3 psychological changes in men after seeing their ex-girlfriend

In today's open society, many men have ex-lovers and ex-girlfriends. So what is the mentality of men when they see their ex-lovers? Psychological experts have analyzed the following situations for us. Let's take a look.

Facing an old lover, he is just a familiar stranger

When we said goodbye, she was a stranger to me. All my memories of her were stuck in that fragment of yesterday. After we broke up, we each started our own families. Although we lived in the same city, we never saw each other again. Today, I unexpectedly ran into her on the street. I was heartbroken when she left me.

But as Eason Chan sang in "Ten Years": Ten years later, we are friends and can still greet each other, but that tenderness no longer finds a reason to hug. After greeting each other, she and I politely said: Contact each other again. As time goes by, she has gained weight, dressed plainly, and has an undecorated face.

I wondered why I was so devoted to her back then? After I left, I realized that I didn't leave any contact information. Maybe this would be the last time we met. Who knows? She is a stranger to me now. There is no need to exchange too many pleasantries with a stranger.

Psychological analysis:

We can call this type of man cooperative, introverted, gentle and emotional. When he sees his old lover, his calm heart is rippled, but he will not express it rashly. The initial breakup is still fresh in his memory, but everything has become the past and will never come back; a relationship will eventually become a permanent memory.

I almost cheated on my ex-lover

By chance, I met her again. When we met again, I felt her unchanging attachment to me and her unforgettable love in her eyes. We both wanted to possess each other. Any sensitive topic would make her and me jealous. After her ambiguous expression, I couldn't control myself and approached her, not out of love, but a man's victorious possession.

While the marriage of the past few years has made me relaxed, it has also made me feel tired. The "mystery" of the emotional bond has disappeared... But the sound of my wife calling me brought me back from crossing the boundary between reason and traditional morality. I almost cheated, and all I could do was to run away quickly...

I love my wife at home, but I still don't want to hurt the woman I once loved. I know I still long for a new, flaming love, and I don't want to grow old in this habitual marriage, but I rely on my family. I struggle between temptation and morality...

Psychological analysis:

A pioneering man dares to do things and dares to love and hate in relationships. The love in the past brought him excitement and pain. Meeting again brought back the passion of love, and he was so impulsive that he almost did something deviant. Fortunately, his wife's phone call woke him up. However, it will be really difficult for him to avoid temptation next time.

When it comes to my old lover, I want to have her again

Many years ago, I gave up on her for my so-called career and future, but after I had all of this, I felt that it was not all of my life. I became hopeless and more lonely. When I met her again, she was still so kind and charming. Facing her faint smile, I felt so ugly and embarrassed. Back then, for the sake of easy material things, I sold out my young love and abandoned the woman I loved...