These 6 places on a man become soft when touched

1. Being laughed at for being timid and cowardly

There has been a saying since ancient times that heroes save beauties. Men all like beauties. Therefore, in the minds of men, they all hope to be a hero that beauties admire.

It's a pity that we live in a civilized society, so there aren't that many beauties who need men with their strong bodies to act as their protectors.

But this does not mean that men will give up their dreams of being heroes. To men, ridiculing them for being timid is nothing more than implying that they are not manly enough, which is an insult to them.

2. People criticize your appearance

I always thought that only women care about their appearance, but in fact men care about it too. Recently, a friend of mine got a girlfriend, and he always felt that his standard figure was not strong enough and could not give his girlfriend enough sense of security.

In fact, his girlfriend said that her man is quite muscular. So men’s lack of confidence in their appearance often comes from their own psychological pressure. In fact, what women care about is not how tall, strong or handsome a man is, but how sincere a man is to her.

However, it is said that men care about other people's comments on their appearance because they are confident in their genes. Just like short men always want to find a tall woman, they hope to make up for their shortcomings through mutual complementation. So if a woman is picky about a man's appearance, the man will understand that she is not optimistic about him.

3. Praise another man in front of him

Just as women don't want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also mind women praising another man in front of them, even if the man is the woman's relative or his friend.

Men cannot tolerate a woman who, when she is with him, keeps praising another man. This will not only make the man feel that you are looking down on him, but it is also a very stupid behavior.

Think about it, most men love to save face, especially in front of their beloved women, most of them hope to get the other party's affirmation. If you praise another man in front of him, you are simply telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man happens to be someone he knows, think about it, which man can tolerate it?

4. Being Exposed

It is also a face issue, and it actually involves the issue of being a human being. Imagine if a woman was exposed by others that she had a double eyelid surgery at a certain time on a certain day in a certain place, I think she would feel very unhappy at that time, right? As the saying goes, don't hit people in the face, and don't expose people's shortcomings when scolding them. Exposing people's shortcomings is originally a mean behavior. Even if you are a close lover, you should not easily step into this forbidden area.

As a smart woman, you should know when silence is golden.

Being confused is always the highest state in life. People who speak their mind are always easy to offend others. A man's failure is like a scar, which only needs to be left for the man to heal slowly. What women should do is to learn to make their memory a little worse.

5. Publicizing Private Life

I still remember a woman I knew before who always liked to bring up things between her and her husband. For example, one day she washed her husband's underwear and put it on the balcony to dry, but it was blown away by the wind; or she bought a few cans of soda and a few rolls of toilet paper today and had to ask her husband to reimburse her in the evening; she even brought up the fact that her husband snored at night.

Everyone has two sides. Her husband is a man of some social status, and he has many people to support him. But in their own home, all men will take off their armor and return to their truest selves. At this moment, he is also defenseless, picking his nose and scratching his scalp.

If a woman uses the secret between you and him as a topic of conversation, for a man, it is tantamount to exposing his soft spots and weaknesses in front of others. He will feel like he is being betrayed, and will refuse to show his true side in front of you.

6. Sexual Performance

Every man hopes that he can last long and be strong, and be able to control himself, but there will always be times when men are unable to do so, and a woman's attitude towards a man's inability will greatly affect his future performance. What's particularly bad is that some women like to publicize the little addictions between husband and wife. You should know that men's inability is not entirely due to physical problems, but many of them come from psychological problems. Women's ridicule is the cause of men's "psychological inability".

For example, the woman I mentioned earlier, her husband didn't come home every other day, and everyone knew what was going on. Because she had been married for many years and had not given birth to a child, she was afraid of being laughed at, so she went around saying that her husband was not good in bed. I think for a man, being not good in bed may be much more serious than being poor, so the man openly took a young and beautiful woman out to show everyone with his actions that he was not "not good enough".

It's not that he has no "sexual interest" in his wife.

As to whether it is just a show, we don't know. I only know that no matter whether it works or not, women should not talk about it everywhere.