Men's 7 favorite sexual fantasy objects

Men have sexual fantasies every 6 minutes. Many times, behaviors that are simple and clear to women are associated with sex in his eyes. He creates a gray area for himself, and he fantasizes about it. Sexual fantasies become his vitamins. What occasions and behaviors are likely to make men have sexual associations?

1. His female boss praised him

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★★★

Simply put, it was because his performance was outstanding that the single, beautiful female boss gave him praise, a smile and encouragement.

Gray Zone: He was wondering if she was interested in me?

You may think that he is being sentimental, but men often think that this is the so-called masculine courage. He is very confident in himself. He may fantasize in bed late at night and think that the female boss is lonely and needs his comfort. Why is he easily sexually ambiguous with the single female boss? This is related to the "face-shou" complex hidden deep in the hearts of men, just like the complex of many women who have deep in their hearts to rely on rich men. If they can get wealth and status without any effort, I believe that no man is unwilling to give it a try. This is not only because of the "face-shou", but also means: first of all, he is handsome and has sexual value; secondly, other men work hard all their lives, while he can get wealth through shortcuts - why not do such a good thing?

The Durex Global Sexual Survey Report points out that men have sexual fantasies about single female bosses, which is basically the primary sexual fantasy of men.

2. Daydreaming on the road

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★★

It was crowded, and she pressed closely in front of him, with a faint scent of perfume, a white back, and her cleavage faintly visible under her thin summer shirt.

Gray Area: Did she mean it? But in his opinion, maybe she was getting close to him on purpose.

The Beijing subway is said to be a hotspot for "dirty hands", and most women have had the experience of being harassed in the subway. It is unknown whether there are women who harass men in the subway, but it is true that close contact in the subway is a time that makes men feel distracted. He knows that he cannot act rashly, but the less he can act rashly, the easier it is for him to start thinking about it. Maybe it's a romantic encounter, or maybe it's a love that comes suddenly. When a woman is looking for romance all over the world, a man is also looking for the romance in his imagination. Although the train has reached the end of the journey, this does not affect his long and boring journey, and he uses this ambiguous fantasy as vitamins on his way to work.

3. Hanging out with your buddy's girlfriend

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★

As the saying goes, a friend's wife should not be cheated. But don't forget another saying, other people's wives are always the best.

Gray Area: How could he find such a beautiful woman? If he can’t get her, he can just fantasize about her, or just find a way to snatch her away.

She was his buddy's girlfriend. One day when his buddy was away, he entrusted him to take care of her. Most of the time, it was during this period that the incident happened. When his buddy came back, perhaps the world had changed. He might have avoided her at first and only regarded her as a good friend. He firmly believed that "a friend's wife should not be cheated on." But the more he drew a line, the easier it was for him to let his imagination run wild. It could be that when the men were chatting together, his buddy had already joked about the details of their sex life with her, which made him imagine more about her and his buddy together. The more he imagined, the more he wanted to replace her. As for taboos, men are like rebellious children in adolescence, eager to offend and trample on them - because he has a sense of pleasure in offending. Fantasy is related to the buddy's girlfriend, and it is also related to the competitive consciousness of males. Never believe that brotherhood is unbreakable. History is full of stories of iron-blooded allies turning against each other for the sake of beauties.

4. He and his confidante

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★

On a rainy night, in a bar, they had a long heart-to-heart talk. He was hurt, perhaps emotionally, perhaps at work. She was just his good friend, like a confidante, but after the talk, she went home, and he felt uneasy.

Gray Area: She is so considerate, and he is like a greedy child, wanting to possess her.

How many deep friendships between men and women can be limited to emotions and be in accordance with etiquette? If you can do it, it must be a true realm. A friend of mine told me that one night, he and his confidante had a heart-to-heart talk. They talked until midnight and went to sleep separately. He did not lock the door and could not sleep all night. He always fantasized that his confidante might push the door open. He wondered if she was also like him, with a restless mind? Such fantasies tortured him. As a result, he could not sleep that night. The next day, his girlfriend, who was innocent, asked him what happened to his dark circles under his eyes. He could only answer with a wry smile. For a while, the media hyped the so-called "fourth type of emotion", an ambiguous relationship between men and women, and found that it was often the man who went offside in the end. When he shares his inner thoughts with you, he must often want to share your physical feelings.

5. Girls wandering on the night streets

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★

You are wandering the streets alone like a ghost, maybe you had a fight with your boyfriend, or maybe you are depressed at work and just want to get some fresh air.

Gray area: If a single woman has no man around her, he will of course think that he can chat with her or even kiss her.

In his opinion, this seems to provide an opportunity. Taking advantage of someone's misfortune is not very upright, but the one-night stand of a chance encounter is hidden deep in the hearts of many men. The reason why he is interested in you wandering on the street in the middle of the night is that you make him feel lonely and need comfort. Men have a chivalrous spirit - in fact, this may be sexual desire, but he thinks he is doing a good deed. Secondly, the wandering girl you meet in the middle of the night, even if it is a one-night stand, but he is not responsible and has no worries - the fast-paced modern life has made him too tired and he doesn't want to have any emotional entanglements. Such a fleeting relationship suits his psychology. So, why is it that when a woman walks home alone in the middle of the night, brave men often whistle at her? Timid men can only make associations, because many men think that this is a moment that is easy to be ambiguous.

6. The boss's female secretary

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★

ANN replaced Li Jian, who was highly popular, and became the assistant to the general manager. From the outside, this was a normal personnel change, but rumors gradually spread in the office: ANN was promoted because of his relationship with the general manager.

Gray Area: Since she can have an affair with another man, can she also have an affair with me?

It turns out that Li Jian had spread the rumor to his colleagues intentionally or unintentionally when they were drinking coffee during lunch break. Li Jian was originally interested in ANN, but ANN rejected him tactfully, which made him feel very hurt. In the eyes of some men, their inner chauvinism makes them always look down on those talented women. Especially when a woman becomes their boss one day and bosses them around, it makes their male self-esteem unbearable. So they naturally think that if a woman is promoted, she must have some kind of ambiguous deal with her boss to achieve her goal.

This is somewhat jealous of sour grapes, and also has some eroticism. All female secretaries actually have improper relationships with their bosses - this is the truth firmly believed in the man's world. Perhaps such gossip cannot improve his environment in the workplace, but he hopes to balance his injured male self-esteem in this way - I didn't get promoted, not because I'm incompetent, but because I didn't have the opportunity to make such an ambiguous deal with my boss.

7. Nurses in white uniforms

Sexual ambiguity index: ★★★★

He was sick, and the ambulance came rushing in. A beautiful angel-like nurse descended from the sky with a medicine box. He enjoyed her warm care. She asked about his health and all the warmth in the world seemed to be concentrated in her.

Gray area: "Heidi's Sex Report - Men's Volume" mentioned that for most men, hospital nurses are objects that easily make them feel ambiguous.

A famous writer mentioned such a plot in his novel: A man, because of an illness, enjoyed the careful care of a nurse. She was a professional nurse, but he had wild thoughts and always felt that the nurse was particularly interested in him. From then on, he hoped that he would get sick soon so that he could have a chance to get close to the beautiful nurse. Why was he so ambiguous with the nurse? First, the more vulnerable a man is, the more he needs sex and comfort. Second, because the nurse took care of him, which was her professional need, but he was easily self-indulgent. Moreover, nurses are often gentle and considerate, and have the potential to be good wives and mothers.