5 ways to be a husband that every man should know

Don't be too serious between husband and wife

In marriage, the one who takes things more seriously is the one who suffers the most. Therefore, a wise husband should pretend to be ignorant while knowing the truth. If he is happy to listen to his wife's nagging, he should listen to her for a few more sentences. If he is not happy to listen to it, he should be wise but foolish, make a face, pretend to be confused, or simply extinguish her anger with a kiss, or pretend to be deaf and dumb and walk away. In short, don't take things too seriously. The most important thing is to never argue with her. As long as you try to reason with her, you have already lost the initiative and will definitely fail.

A small treasury is essential

In today's era, the status of men has fallen more than the stock market, and "henpecked" men are springing up like mushrooms after rain. Because the financial power is in the hands of your wife, you dare not treat your friends to a bowl of beef ramen; when you got married, your friend gave you a gift of 100 yuan, but now your friend's wife only approves 50 yuan, which makes you feel that you owe others a favor; your colleague forgot to bring his wallet and asked you to borrow money, but you dare not take out your empty wallet, and you can only pretend that you forgot to bring your wallet, which makes you feel very embarrassed. All of the above fully proves the necessity and rationality of husbands setting up private coffers. As for the source of the coffers, everyone has their own tricks, so I will not tell you one by one.

Don't treat each other with respect

A couple who treat each other with respect on the surface may seem to be a good couple to outsiders, but they are not necessarily a happy couple. Being polite to your loved ones as if they were guests at least shows that there is still a distance between you two. Home should be the freest, most unrestrained and most carefree place. You can tell jokes and interesting stories as much as you want. You should joke with each other more. Even if you accidentally annoy each other, no one will interfere if you use your hands and feet. Just be careful not to hit your wife in the face, and stop when it is enough; when breaking things, you should consider the value, and it is better to break those porcelain dishes, cups, and other outdated ones with chips; don't choose to quarrel in the middle of the night, so as not to affect the rest of the neighbors; and be careful not to let your wife's long nails scratch your face. If this happens, the first words you say at work the next day should be...

Say "My nasty cat..." Remember, "mutual respect" means inner respect for your spouse's personality, not just superficial politeness.

Lies are sometimes more beautiful than the truth

It is true that a man who hides everything from his wife is not a good husband, but he is also not a good husband if he tells his wife everything, because some words spoken out are not conducive to the stability and unity of the family. In real life, beautiful lies can reduce conflicts and avoid some unpleasant things. For example, if you come home late from playing cards at work, you must not tell the truth. Even if you win the cards, you must not show your joy. You should drag your feet into the house, then lie on the sofa, close your eyes and rest your mind. After your wife asks you three times in confusion and anxiety, you can say a few words with difficulty, such as "I am exhausted from the temporary mission at the unit", and "struggle" to help your wife cook. At this time, she will be moved and bring the meal to you.

Don't talk about divorce lightly

"Divorce" is the first taboo word for couples. Women regard marriage as their life. If you want a divorce, it is like asking for her life, which is absolutely unacceptable. As for her saying the word divorce, you can just ignore it. When you have dinner together later, the woman will swallow the two words along with the food. It is very embarrassing for a man to be angry with his wife. A smart man will never ignore his wife for a month because of a quarrel. A smart man is always good at admitting his mistakes and making amends. You should know that there are many marriages that were originally very good, but because of a quarrelsome joke that deeply hurt the other party, the fake became real and they went their separate ways. Therefore, a smart husband should study the art of marriage carefully. This is an all-encompassing and vague science that cannot be explained in a few words.