How to get rid of the love that is mourned by a breakup

No one wants to see a love without results, and no one wants to see the ending of a broken heart. However, there is no 100% successful love in the world. What should we do to get out of the quagmire of pain after a broken heart?

How to Get Over a Broken Heart

1. Stay away from situations and occasions where you have been with him to avoid being hurt by the memories.

2. Some people think that as long as they think about his bad things, they will increase the power to leave. In fact, you can't forget others with jealousy. The real way to forget is to be indifferent and not linger on some right and wrong. No matter whether it is good or bad, don't think about him.

3. Clean up your life, put his things in a corner that is usually hard to reach (or throw them away), then re-establish the order of life in your room, put your favorite plants, pictures, and objects, and manage your life well. This will help you restore your self-confidence and vitality in a short time, and face the things that happen every day with more confidence. This is especially important, because only when you return to your own life, dominate your own pace, and be yourself, can you stay away from the feeling of missing him.

4. Care about your parents, because their selfless love is the most glorious. They will surely make you believe that something more real and precious has been neglected by you. They will make you feel that something more important than love is right beside you. They will let you return to the moment when you were cared for and warmed, and regain the strength to live.

5. Hanging out with good friends and enjoying life with them will make you forget many unhappy times. But don't ask your friends to help you forget the past and confide your sorrows to them, because that will only give them clues to bring up those stories later.

6. Generously accept the care around you, and you will find that there are many good people who can also open up a bright future for you.

7. Focus on one thing and let it occupy your time. A friend of mine memorized the Tao Te Ching after a breakup and got over it. There are also great people who got over a breakup by reading Zizhi Tongjian.

8. If you really can't help but feel sad, then don't hesitate to cry. Don't restrain yourself, allow yourself to grieve with all your heart, but there should be a time limit. When the time is up, do something else with all your heart. This is also a way to live in the present.

Finally, you must be that sunny and positive self again, keep loving yourself and others, and never do anything to hurt yourself or others because of a broken heart.