Men's sexual patterns throughout their lives

The life pattern of a man: "sexual liberation" in youth, sexual fear in middle age, and no sex at all in old age.

Sexual troubles are the deepest and most sensitive privacy of men. Countless people praise women for their understanding and sympathy, but this is the only exception, because women cannot experience emotions they have not experienced. Men all over the world have another layer of troubles - sexual repression.

Countless girls denounce their boyfriends for being unruly, countless wives complain about their husbands' greed, and countless female teachers teach boys to be moral. But who among them can tell: what does it mean and feel like to have an erection in the morning? What does it mean that 93% of men masturbate?

Men want sex, women want love

It is fashionable to criticize young people for their "sexual promiscuity", but among all college students in Beijing, 37% of male students do not even have a regular girlfriend.

Yes, almost all rapists in the world are men, and almost all sexually indifferent people are women. Men should undoubtedly abide by sexual ethics and respect women's sexual rights, but what about husbands and wives? When we listen to the wife complaining about her husband's strong sexual desire with sympathy, shouldn't we also ask her: Why do you have to be so indifferent?

"Men want sex, women want love." This is the most common saying. In fact, the difference between men and women is that men think that love cannot exist without sex, otherwise they will not get married. Women, on the other hand, require that sex must have love, otherwise they will be sexually apathetic. Can you tell who is right and who is wrong?

Whether before or after marriage, when a man can consciously suppress his sexual desire in front of a woman, this is a great love. Unfortunately, most women think this is honesty. Some are happy that he will not have an affair, while others blame him for not being masculine enough. I wonder if women have ever thought about how to repay this kind of love? On the other hand, men are crazy about having sex with a woman, which is a way for men to express their love. Unfortunately, almost all literary works describe this as lustful or shameless. In fact, the key is to see who is with whom.

There are simply too many misunderstandings between men and women regarding sex. Recently, the topic of "sexual harassment" has become popular again, and women have openly taken being harassed as their own specialty, a new crime of men. However, when a man stays in a hotel and a prostitute calls him, or when a man goes out and a waitress pulls him into the hotel, are these considered sexual harassment?

Of course, women who live down-to-earth and understand the ways of the world will have very few of the above-mentioned problems. But if a man is unlucky enough to meet a woman like this, his troubles will never end.

Therefore, the rule of a man's life is: "sexual liberation" in youth; sexual fear in middle age; and no sex at all in old age. Women are fine, having sex is a lifetime, and not having sex is also a lifetime. It is easy to be a widow but difficult to lose your wife. This is both a man's "human nature" and his handle.

Sex without love is not good, but love without sex is good?

Traditionally, women have controlled men not by crying, making a fuss, or even hanging themselves, but by "getting into bed and facing the wall." But if a man is really controlled, the woman will think he is too useless.

Look at the newspapers nowadays. Whenever a woman is victimized, she is drowned in tears of sympathy. But if a man is under sexual pressure or suffers sexual retaliation, he has nowhere to turn to for help from the "Men's League".

Chinese people just can't understand what "CIS" means. Men are men, and sex is sex. No matter how equal men and women are, they can't be "identical" at least physiologically. No matter how progressive the concept of love is, sex is still necessary. So why do we have to unify and make one side change the other?

In the past, it was indeed men (especially rulers) who had to transform women according to their own needs. Why is it necessary for women to transform men now? Is sex without love bad, or is love without sex good?

Many men's sexual troubles nowadays are because they have been over-modified. Many men are neither impotent nor premature ejaculating. It is just because women feel unsatisfied that men doubt themselves and blindly seek quack doctors. "Erectile dysfunction" and "couple pleasure devices" are everywhere. Is this a disease, a mental illness, or a social disease? On the other hand, pornographic products and secret prostitutes are repeatedly banned and cannot be eradicated.

Sex is ultimately biological, constant, and cannot be changed. We call on women not to change men. Men should tell women: love me the way I am. Otherwise, don't say you won't do it, I won't do it either.