Men's Wrong Sexual Concepts

1. Men vent their emotions through sex

In modern society, men are under increasing pressure in social life, especially in the fiercely competitive workplace. Promotion, salary increase, customer development, etc., all make men often in a state of tension. Therefore, many men use sex to ease their emotions. In addition, when there is an emotional crisis between husband and wife, men often hope to weaken the conflict through physical intimacy, but this approach is often not understood by the wife. Instead, the wife thinks that she is being used as a tool for venting by the man, and thus develops a disgusted mentality. In fact, men are very fragile in many cases. Their low emotions need to be released and they long for understanding.

Therefore, when you know this psychological state of a man, when he is at a low ebb, take the initiative to approach him, encourage him, listen to his confession, and then give him a woman's gentle comfort and hug, which will deepen the relationship between husband and wife.

2. Praise his sexual ability

In the life of a couple, whether a man is weak or strong, he often has a kind of worry. He will doubt his sexual ability for no reason. He doesn't know whether he can be regarded as a mighty man, and he is worried that his wife will underestimate his performance. At this time, if there is a lack of communication between the couple, the man will not be able to get the expected affirmation, so he will be more at a loss. On the contrary, if a woman can give a man positive encouragement and praise him with words such as "You are really great" and "You make me feel very happy", then the man will become very confident and will work harder to show his masculine charm, so that the woman can get more happiness.

3. Refusing to be a child

A woman's maternal nature is often seen as a kind of beauty by men. He may need you to care about his well-being and take care of his diet and daily life like a mother. However, if you treat him as a child in your married life, it will be difficult for him to treat you sexually. At this time, the maternal characteristics will weaken your sexual attractiveness. Therefore, you must remember: you are his wife, not his mother.

Although men are willing to be the protagonists in their married life, they also hope that women can actively cooperate. Almost 90% of men say, "If she can be a little wild sometimes, I will be more excited. I think it will be better for both of us." Therefore, women can take the initiative to express their sexual needs without worrying about being too shy and being seen as promiscuous by men.

5. The contrast between men before and after sex

Men's "coldness" after sex is a common "opinion" of women. Indeed, most men are much more gentle before and during sex than after sex, and they can become silent in an instant after being full of passion. Therefore, women naturally think that men only pursue sex and do not know how to love. In fact, this contrast of men has nothing to do with emotions. In addition to their own physical fatigue, this is also their way of readjusting and controlling their emotions. Men show their true side during sex, and when everything is over, they will immediately feel that they should return to their daily state and restore their majestic image.

6. Face up to men’s masturbation behavior

Once upon a time, a wife saw her husband masturbating by chance, and she felt very disgusted, and even thought that her husband was a pervert and a hooligan. In fact, both men and women may masturbate, and it does not necessarily disappear after marriage. Usually men have stronger sexual desires than women, and if he cannot get satisfaction from his wife, he will occasionally resort to masturbation to solve the problem...