What are the psychological changes of boys after a breakup?

Broken heart is a very common phenomenon in normal times. Broken heart means that the relationship has ended, which means that you need to adjust your mentality and not often fall into the vortex of broken heart. There is a big difference in the psychological changes between men and women after a breakup, especially for the dumped party, whether it is a man or a woman, it is usually difficult to accept it in normal times. We often say that men will recover quickly after a breakup. The following introduces the psychological changes of boys after a breakup.

Stage 1: Rejection

If the breakup is due to some trivial things in life, the boys are usually angry, sad, and desperate, and they tend to end the relationship immediately. They will still eat, drink, and have fun, and even have more fun than usual, and quickly find a new love.

They use their actions to tell you that he doesn't care, that the breakup has no impact on him, that he is not sad at all, and that life without you is more relaxed and comfortable.

Phase 2: Reflection

After a period of time, the strong emotions of the breakup will slowly calm down and enter a period of reflection. During the reflection period, men will look at the previous relationship and the behavior at the time of the breakup relatively objectively and rationally.

They will seriously think about why they broke up? Is it really impossible to save the relationship? Who made more mistakes? Can they accept your wrong behavior? Have they done anything wrong? At the same time, they will also reflect on this relationship.

But this period of time is often short, because once they enter the reflection period, they will immediately enter the next stage.

Phase 3: The remembrance period

After boys have a relatively correct understanding of love and breakup behavior, the good memories of the past will involuntarily emerge in their minds, resulting in strong emotional dependence and longing, and even wanting to reconcile with the other party.

At this stage, the guy will constantly think of your goodness, the sweet moments when you two went to the movies together, the sweet moments when you went shopping together, the moments when you always gave him a glass of water when he was sick, and even the moments when he watched porn movies, when he remembered that this was your favorite position. At this stage, the guy only thinks of your goodness, and all the previous rejections are thrown out of his mind.

Many girls say that their ex-boyfriends were very cold to them after the breakup and refused to reconcile, saying "I wish you happiness". This is actually a kind of self-abuse after the breakup. After saying this, men often suffer greater pain.