Boys don't feel safe

In life, many people feel insecure. Most of them are women, and few men feel insecure. When people feel insecure, it is mostly because of the environment they live in and the education they received since childhood. In fact, the sense of security you want is something you give yourself. The sense of security you seek from others will often disappear when that person leaves. So what are the manifestations of a boy's insecurity?

Security is the psychological need for stability and safety. It is an individual's inner spiritual need. Security is the premonition of possible physical or psychological dangers or risks, as well as the individual's sense of powerlessness in dealing with things, mainly manifested in a sense of certainty and control.

1. When you are alone, you will call him from time to time and send him messages from time to time, because you can't find him and you are scared. In fact, you are just worried about his safety, you just want to care about him, and you just hope he will give you a response.

2. When problems arise between you, you will wonder what he is doing outside and you will want to check his phone and messages, but you have no ill intentions, you just want to reassure yourself that he loves you.

3. You suddenly become depressed because of something he said or did. You try every means to please him, and you are afraid that he will suddenly dislike you, but in fact you just love him very much.

4. You want to go with him wherever he goes. You hope he will accompany you wherever you go. You think that if you love each other, you should be together, but you are worried about his mood. In fact, you just simply want to be with him.

5. You become sensitive. If he says something wrong, you may get angry. But in fact, you are not really angry. You just want to see that he cares about you.