Men's psychology after breaking up

In life, when men and women are in love, most of them break up because the women bring it up first. Few men will break up with women first, so some people think that if men want to break up, they must not want to be in a relationship anymore. Many men feel liberated after breaking up, and then start a new relationship. So what is the mentality of men after they take the initiative to break up?

When we feel very tired and painful in a relationship, we arrogantly think that choosing to break up or divorce can free us from each other. However, after separation, we find that our choice was wrong. Life after separation is not as good as expected. On the contrary, we live in more pain and even regret our impulsive choice, so we start to save the relationship.

But it seems that everything is too late, and all you get in return is a more ruthless rejection from the other party. You can't understand why the other party was so reluctant when you chose to break up, and now that you have lowered your posture and are willing to come back, why has the other party become so indifferent? In fact, you don't understand the psychological changes of men after breaking up. If you only instinctively try to win him back according to your own way of winning him back, then you will undoubtedly push the other party further away. Therefore, if you want to win him back successfully, you must be familiar with the other party's mental changes after the breakup and make the correct way to win him back. Only in this way can you win him back successfully.

1. Release period

In the early stage of a breakup, men will feel like they have regained their freedom. They are no longer bound and can do whatever they want without anyone nagging them. They can play games all night long and chat up pretty girls when they see them. They feel happy. If you choose to come back to him/her at this time, he/she will not agree. He is enjoying the happiness of being single and does not want to be entangled with you anymore. Therefore, in the early stage of a breakup, even if you want to get back together, it is best not to rush into it. Instead, keep out of contact with the other party and make full use of this time to improve yourself.

2. Memorial period

This period usually occurs after a man has had enough fun and starts to miss the sweetness of their love life. There is no one waiting for him at home, and no one calls to urge him to go home. He will feel very lonely and have a strong sense of gap psychologically. His emotional needs will also reach a peak. If you choose to win back your wife during this period, the success rate will be very high. Moreover, during this period, you need to mention your good past to bring back your good memories and create emotional resonance. He will definitely be unable to resist and take the initiative to win you back.

3. New Journey

If you don't grasp the second stage, the man has slowly adapted to his single life, adjusted his mentality, and started a new life. He will start looking for a new partner so that he won't miss you anymore and will never see you again. If he has good relationships with the opposite sex and is really good and attractive, then he may have found a new partner and is in a passionate love period. If you try to win him back at this time and mention the good times you had together, he will be more repulsive, so this stage is undoubtedly the most difficult to win him back.