How to chase girls

How to pursue a girl is always a headache for boys. I believe most boys don't know how to pursue the girl they like. If you meet a girl you like, it is normal to want to pursue her, but how to take the next step and successfully win her over requires certain skills and methods. Some people can pursue girls right away, but some people fail repeatedly. So how to pursue girls?

1. How to chase girls

1. The most fatal problem of girls is that they have no sense of security, need protection, and like to waste. From a psychological point of view, security means satisfying the things that she could not satisfy when she was young, the things she lacks in life, and satisfying the parts she has been missing since she was young, then she will like you. What is the best line of defense to break the sense of security? It is sincerity. Sincerity can cover everything. You treat her sincerely, you are really good for her, you are selfless, and you consider her from the bottom of your heart. At this time, you can distinguish some things, you can distinguish why you can't catch up with girls. She judges by sincerity. If the other party feels that you don't really need me, feel that you just want to possess me, just want to find someone to accompany you when you are lonely, she doesn't really like me, but just satisfies her vanity when she needs it, or satisfies some other needs, etc. You need to first figure out what kind of sense of security a woman wants in a relationship, so one thing you need to understand clearly is to satisfy what the other person lacks, satisfy their sense of security, and the premise for satisfying their sense of security is to be sincere enough.

2. Increase the amount of contact with the opposite sex and reduce your sensitivity to girls. When you want to pursue a girl, you can judge your own value and evaluate your score. You feel excited when you see her and especially want to talk to her, then you can try to contact this girl. If you start to feel nervous, scared, and terrified when you see her, then don't approach her at this time. First, reduce your sensitivity to the girl you like through contact with other opposite sexes. When you have more contact with the opposite sex, your nervousness and sensitivity to the opposite sex will naturally decrease. When you contact girls later, start by trying to ask for their number. When you can get their number and they are not so disgusted with you, you can start chatting and move on to the next step. When you take the initiative to invite someone, you need to learn how to build a relationship. Physical contact is the key to upgrading the relationship, such as holding hands, kissing, hugging, etc. Holding hands is actually very simple, but many guys don’t know how to do it. The best opportunity to hold hands is to take a girl across the street. Be confident and grab her hand to protect her safety. Regarding the relationship between the sexes, there are actually many factors that will affect the final outcome. Many friends, before they figure out the core issue, rashly try it themselves, which leads to further deterioration of the situation.

3. Respect girls

Know how to respect girls. Respect is important for everyone, not just girls. The same goes for other people.

4. Observe what others say and what others say

Women often say "yes" as "no" and "like" as "dislike". This is their natural psychological defense instinct, and it is their habit to use words to cover up their true intentions. At this time, understanding when they speak the truth and when they speak sarcastically is a skill that requires great observation and reading of their expressions.