Why is my husband not interested in me?

Marriage is happy, but after a long time, both husband and wife will always feel tired and not be interested in each other like when they were newly married. In fact, this is a normal physiological phenomenon, but we can use some effective tips to rekindle our passion in life and not be defeated by these trivial matters. Men are the dominant party in sex and should work harder. So, if your husband is no longer interested in you, what should you do?

1. Pathological sexual indifference. Some men's sexual indifference is pathological. Since I am not a professional and don't know how to cure it, it is best to seek help from a professional doctor.

2. Psychological sexual indifference. Some men cannot get over their own psychological barriers and think that sex life is not so sacred and beautiful, and it is even more direct and simple than doing it themselves. So they will also show indifference, but in fact his needs are also the needs of normal men, but he just solves them by himself. In this case, you must communicate with him well and seek help from a doctor when necessary.

3. Physical fatigue. Most of the men who are sexually indifferent are overly tired. They don't feel like having sex when they are tired, because sex is very physically demanding. So they will also be more indifferent. This requires wives to be more considerate and create a relaxed atmosphere so that men feel that sex is a rest.

4. Seasonal sexual indifference. Some men even have seasonal sexual indifference. For example, in autumn and winter, wearing thick pajamas, it is normal to be too cold to have sex. In spring and summer, wearing simple clothes or even sleeping naked will naturally arouse desire and increase the frequency of sexual life.

5. Another situation is that after a couple gets married, especially after having children, the frequency of sex will also decrease. Although sometimes both of them have the intention, because taking care of the children or work distracts most of their energy, the woman often sleeps next to the child, and the couple sleeps in separate rooms. Naturally, there is not much sex life for the two of them. This cannot be said to be sexual indifference, and one party needs to take the initiative to hint. For example, tell the other party, I took a shower today. The other party will naturally come to the door.

Conclusion: As long as sexual indifference is not pathological, everything else is easy to deal with. It requires joint efforts from both husband and wife. After all, sex life is the most mysterious and intimate behavior between husband and wife. If there is no sex life for a long time, the relationship between husband and wife will be affected to some extent. Don't bear it for the sake of face. It's okay for one or two days, one or two months, but it will cause problems after a long time.

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