What does it mean when a boy plays with you?

In modern society, people are in a faster and faster pace when it comes to love and dating. Therefore, many female friends are very afraid of dating. They are very worried that once they fall in love, the other party will not take the relationship seriously, or even just have a playful attitude. Therefore, many female friends want to know how to tell if a boy is playing with you. What are the signs?

First, what are the signs of a guy playing with you? If he is too nice to you at the beginning, he is most likely to play with you; if he is just average to you, he is most likely to want to marry you. If he is too nice to you at the beginning, he is most likely to be fake; if he is just average to you, he is most likely to be genuine. The guy who can show it, attract you, and please you at the beginning must be someone who has experienced many women and is very philandering; while those who are not very good at showing it, not paying much attention to details, and not pleasing you are often the most honest, most reliable, least experienced, most decent, and most suitable to be a husband. After a philandering man gets a woman's body, as long as the novelty wears off, he will become more and more distant from you. For example: he gradually calls less, sends fewer text messages, and meets less often; he even often doesn't answer your calls or reply to your text messages; even if he goes to bed with you next time, he won't be as devoted; the degree to which he cares about you and loves you is getting lower and lower. This is a common trait of all philandering and irresponsible men. However, those truly decent men who really want to marry you will love you more and more after getting your body; they will become more and more dependent on you; they will treat you better and better; they will often urge you to get married as soon as possible, for fear of losing you.

This is a very important criterion for measuring whether a man is unfaithful, whether he has a sense of responsibility, whether he truly loves you, whether he truly wants to marry you, and whether he is a good husband.

Second, a man who really wants to be in love with you for the purpose of marriage, once he has established a relationship with you, he will not hesitate to take you to meet everyone around him, and will not mind you participating in all his activities, and even want to take you to participate in his activities. However, a man who wants to play with you, every time he goes on a date or plays with you, it is mostly a "two-person world". Even if it is a group activity, he will only let you participate in activities with his friends, and he will not take you to activities with his colleagues or family members.

What are the signs that a boy is playing with you? People who want to play with you and friends who are not really good to you will take you to nightclubs; while boyfriends who are aiming to get married or friends who are really good to you will not only not take you to those places, but also oppose you going there;

People who want to play with you and friends who are not really good to you will try every means to make you drink. It is better if you can get drunk, so that they can get you more easily. However, a boyfriend who is for marriage and a friend who is really good to you will not only not let you drink too much, but even not let you drink at all. If you say something inappropriate or uncivilized. The reaction of a boyfriend who is for marriage and a friend who is really good to you is surprise, anger, criticism, and education. They will point out your mistakes directly, not afraid of offending you or making you unhappy, just like parents. However, a person who wants to play with you and a friend who is not really good to you will hardly react, or even if he reacts, he will not say anything to you. Because they don't care about you, they don't care about your mistakes and errors. Therefore, a person who really loves you and treats you well must be someone who can help you improve and progress. Otherwise, whether it is a lover or a friend, what do you want him to do?

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