Is it a problem if your husband doesn't touch you for ten days or half a month?

Sex is a very common thing in life for many people, but sometimes it can cause some problems. For example, many people in life find that their husbands do not have sex with them for ten days or half a month, which leads them to think that their husbands are cheating on them. But in fact, this is a relatively common phenomenon. There are many reasons that lead to this situation. The following are some specific explanations, which I hope can help you find the right remedy.

1. How often is sexual intercourse normal?

When a couple has sex, they must pay attention to the frequency of sex. They should not have sex too often, nor should they have no sex at all. Sexual desire varies greatly from person to person. It should be normal to have sex once a day or once a month. This is mainly related to age and the harmony of the couple's sex life.

2. Internal reasons for sexual indifference between couples

1. Mental causes

① Chronic fatigue: work stress, or busy social affairs, or excessive mental work, which affects the functional state of the higher nervous system. ② Abstinence or excessive indulgence will cause spinal cord central function disorder over time, gradually lead to disgust, and suppress sexual desire.

③ The relationship between the couple is not harmonious or they have different views on sex, or the woman cannot get orgasm pleasure for a long time, thus getting tired of sex life.

2. Organic causes

Almost all chronic transmitted diseases may cause poor libido, and their main mechanism is to affect the nerves and endocrine system, thereby reducing the level of sex hormones in the blood.

3. Start sexual life too early.

4. Overwork: A harmonious sex life needs to be based on good health and sufficient energy.

3. External factors affecting sexual indifference in couples

(1) Mood. When a person is in a bad mood, their sexual desire is likely to temporarily decrease. This is especially true when they are in a state of extreme sadness, fear, depression, and despair. Their sexual desire will be significantly affected or even completely lost.

(2) Nutrition. Nutrition is the material basis of sex.

(3) Smoking and drinking. Long-term heavy smoking is more likely to cause impotence than non-smokers. Long-term alcohol addiction can cause sexual dysfunction and decreased sexual desire.

(4) Drugs. Long-term or excessive use of certain drugs can lead to decreased sexual function and even cause impotence in men and frigidity in women.

(5) Season and temperature. According to surveys, most people have stronger sexual desire in the cold winter and spring, especially in spring, which is considered the courtship season. In the sweaty summer, sexual desire often temporarily weakens.

(6) Age. This is an important factor affecting sexual desire.

(7) Inducement and sexual history. In addition to internal causes and the effects of sex hormones, external stimulation is also important in the development of sexual desire.

(8) Emotions. Humans are different from other animals. Sexual desire is not simply a biological instinct, but is often triggered by love.