Why do people become frigid in middle age? The reasons for frigidity in middle-aged men

When they are young, men generally have strong sexual demands. They may have sex every day, or even several times a day. However, as they grow older, men's sexual demands become lower and lower. Some even become sexually apathetic. What is the reason for sexual apathy in middle-aged men?

Men's sexual indifference makes women very angry. When you are in the mood for sex, your husband will be aggrieved or half-hearted, as if he is possessed by a woman. At this time, you will definitely be very angry and suspect that there is something wrong with your sexual desire. Not only will you lose confidence in your body, but it will also make women lack a sense of security in intimate relationships.

Sexual apathy refers to lack of sexual desire, which is generally speaking a lack of interest in sex life, or a loss of libido. Sexual apathy and lack of sexual pleasure are two different concepts, and the two can appear at the same time or at different times. Therefore, sexual apathy is divided into two types: sexual apathy with sexual apathy syndrome and sexual apathy without sexual apathy or sexual apathy syndrome.

There are many reasons for male sexual apathy. Some of them are caused by diseases. Diet and lifestyle can also cause excessive estrogen in the male body, thus "weakening male virility".

Men's sexual indifference makes women very angry. When you are in the mood for sex, your husband will be aggrieved or half-hearted, as if he is possessed by a woman. At this time, you will definitely be very angry and suspect that there is something wrong with your sexual desire. Not only will you lose confidence in your body, but it will also make women lack a sense of security in intimate relationships.

In fact, there are many reasons why men are sexually indifferent. Today, let's take a look at the top five reasons why men are sexually indifferent and see if the men around you have these reasons too.

1. He is not interested in your health

He has a lover outside. Or he doesn't have a lover but has a one-night stand, or visits prostitutes. In short, he is no longer interested in you.

Men are very curious. They need to have a sense of mystery with each other, which creates suspense. In this case, sex is the most enjoyable. However, since you two have been married for several years and are familiar with each other, there is no novelty. The pleasure level during sex is greatly reduced, and there is no attraction. Over time, you will lose interest. Therefore, it is necessary for couples to have some reservations, which is the source of mystery, novelty and pleasure.

Most men find it difficult to resist the temptation of the outside world. It is impossible for their hearts to stay on only one woman. They have a sense of responsibility for their family, but this cannot stop their restless hearts from being attracted by sex. "Lustful and bold" is actually the best description.

2. Behavior: Lifestyle habits also affect "sexual interest"

In terms of living habits, although alcohol can make people have impulsive desires, it actually damages men's sexual ability, especially for those men who have been drinking heavily for a long time. "Excessive use of tobacco and alcohol. You should know that nicotine in tobacco and alcohol in alcohol, after being absorbed by the body, inhibit the body's production of androgen, and can block the pathway of nerve reflexes during sex, reduce sexual function, and cause sexual sensory disorders."

Therefore, men should get rid of bad habits, exercise more, drink less, smoke less or even not smoke at all, which is very important for restoring male sexual function, improving the quality of sexual life and physical health. "Some men take the car when going out, take the elevator when entering the house, use the computer for work, and rarely exercise. In addition, the fast pace of life, high mental pressure, poor body resistance, and various diseases are more likely to occur." Men who have "sexual indifference" need to consult a specialist doctor in time, and the reasonable use of some androgens and Chinese medicines for soothing the liver, nourishing the kidneys and promoting blood circulation will help restore male reproductive health.

3. Pathology: Disease causes a decrease in sexual desire

Physical problems can cause male sexual desire to decline, such as impotence. Statistics show that 7% of young people suffer from impotence, and the rate increases with age. The rate before the age of 40 is 12%, 50-59 years old is 18%, and in the age group of 60 years old, it rises to 25%-30%.

Chronic diseases such as cancer and low blood pressure are next, while cardiovascular disease, high blood pressure and diabetes can also immediately turn off sex by slowing blood flow through the body (including the penis). Other conditions, such as thyroid or pituitary disorders (the pituitary controls the body's production of many hormones, including sex hormones), can also cause a loss of libido.

In addition, experts believe that age is also one of the factors that affect male sexual function. As men age, their sexual desire will become lower and lower. This is the objective law of sexual aging. Especially after the age of 50, men's genitals gradually age and their sexual desire becomes lower, so they need to be given proper care.

4. External factors: Estrogen is a hidden “killer”

Studies have found that the estrogen levels in many men are getting higher and higher, and some are even 2-3 times higher than normal. This "status quo" has even formed a trend of younger people. In the past, sexual dysfunction or infertility were seen in middle-aged and elderly people in their 40s and 50s, but now there are more and more young people in their 30s.

The reason why the estrogen in men's bodies has increased so much is mainly related to environmental pollution, illegal food additives and bad lifestyles. "Pesticides, fertilizers, various pesticides, plastics, rubber products, exhaust gas, waste residue, etc., these toxic and harmful substances are absorbed by crops and accumulated in the human body through poultry and livestock. Because the chemical structure of these substances is very close to that of estrogen, the level of estrogen accumulated in the human body is getting higher and higher."

In addition, many foods also contain harmful additives. For example, some unscrupulous breeders inject estrogen or give contraceptives to turtles to accelerate their growth. The same is true for chickens, ducks, geese, fish and other animals. The more these foods are eaten, the more estrogen is ingested.

5. Psychological: Sexual anxiety can cause problems

Due to lack of knowledge about sex, excessive masturbation or sexual intercourse failure, men will gradually reduce their desire for sex or completely lack it. Disharmony between husband and wife or inharmonious sex are all "danger signals". Fear of the woman getting pregnant or giving birth, incorrect views on sex, or guilt and trauma caused by mistakes in sex will lead to suppression of the excitement of the sexual center in the cerebral cortex.

For a couple, being together day and night does not necessarily improve the quality of sex life. You need to create some romance to increase sexual attraction. In many cases, often seeing familiar faces will make the husband lose interest in sex.