The love view of men with low self-esteem

Inferiority complex is a common psychological manifestation. I believe that many people have experienced inferiority complex to a certain extent. For men, if they have an inferiority complex in love, this will often show up in certain ways in life. For example, they are usually unwilling to go out and like to stay at home. When expressing their opinions, they always hesitate and cannot make up their minds. Let us now understand the love outlook of men with inferiority complex.

The love view of men with low self-esteem

1. A bit of a homebody

"I think men who like anime and comics tend to have low self-esteem. Of course, I don't deny their hobbies, but they generally think that women in real life are scary and they can't date them. Although it's a good thing to have your own hobbies, if you completely indulge in the virtual world and escape from reality, others will think that such people have low self-esteem.

2. Always saying negative words like "Anyway..."

“If you think that this thing is difficult for you to do, and you say without thinking, ‘Someone like me definitely can’t do it,’ then the people around you have to encourage them by saying, ‘No, you can do it.’ This will make the people around you feel very troubled.” When you don’t have confidence in yourself, you will say negative words like “Anyway…”, but in fact, this sentence will also cause headaches for the people around you.

3. He immediately turns down the invitation

"I have a crush on a boy, so I said to him, 'Let's go for a drink if you're free.' He replied, 'I'm a little busy lately...' and I thought he rejected me, but he then said, 'But having a drink is fine.' If you wanted to go, you should have just said OK at the beginning." Men who want to go but don't say it directly will make people feel inferior.

4. As childish as a primary school student

"There was a boy who always made fun of me and laughed at me, so I had a bad impression of him, but later I found out that he actually liked me. Bullying a girl you like is something that only elementary school students do." Bullying someone you like because you don't know how to treat them is something that only elementary school students would do. Don't do this when you grow up and mature.

5. Men with low self-esteem lack a sense of security in love

Mr. Xia and his girlfriend have been in love for 10 years. His girlfriend is a professional model, beautiful, likes to wear fashionable clothes, and has a higher income than her boyfriend. Mr. Xia has a low income and is afraid that his girlfriend will run away with a rich man. He complains that his girlfriend's skirt is too short and is not pleasing to the eye. Unexpectedly, his girlfriend has a bottom line in love and does not mind his boyfriend's low income, nor has she spent his money. However, her boyfriend always lacks a sense of security. Commentator Tu Lei commented: When a man is down and out, his mind becomes small; he does not like this, and he does not like that. If the wife dresses beautifully, it is a sign of cheating; if the wife makes a lot of money, it must be a crooked way. In fact, it is because of his inferiority and incompetence that he dumps the pot of shit on his wife.

A man's character is like an egg, with a seemingly hard shell on the outside and a soft heart inside. A man's inferiority complex is a crack in the eggshell. Although this crack is insignificant, it is likely to break at the touch. This shows that no matter how strong a man with an inferiority complex looks on the outside, he is very fragile inside.