What to do if you have premature ejaculation before marriage? Here are some ways to deal with it

Some men complain that they are still young and unmarried, but they have premature ejaculation. This is very bad. On the one hand, it shows that there is a problem with the body, and on the other hand, it will affect the future emotional life, so correct treatment methods should be taken in time.

(1) Understand what premature ejaculation is:

Strictly speaking, premature ejaculation is defined as ejaculation before the erect penis enters the vagina or immediately after insertion, but it cannot be considered pathological. Only when this happens frequently and sexual intercourse cannot be performed at all, it is considered pathological and can be diagnosed as premature ejaculation.

(2) Correctly understand the length of ejaculation time:

Premature ejaculation refers to premature ejaculation. In fact, it is difficult to define this time. The length of ejaculation time during sexual intercourse varies greatly from person to person. Even for the same person, the ejaculation time is not the same each time. It is inappropriate for some people to use the length of ejaculation time to measure premature ejaculation. Individual differences such as age, physical fitness, health status, sexual life experience, number of sexual intercourses, and the speed of female sexual desire and orgasm must be considered. Therefore, it is difficult to formulate a specific ejaculation time standard. According to surveys, the normal male ejaculation time is generally more than 1 minute to about 3 minutes, some people can be more than 20 minutes to more than 30 minutes, and some can reach 50~60 minutes. As for those who ejaculate within 1 minute, it also depends on whether both men and women can be satisfied at this time. If both parties cooperate well, try to have sexual intercourse when the woman is fully excited, and both parties feel satisfied after ejaculation, it should not be considered premature ejaculation. Therefore, some people have proposed that ejaculation within less than 1 minute after the penis enters the vagina, or the penis twitches less than 15 times in the vagina, is also called premature ejaculation. This opinion is still controversial.

(3) Several normal symptoms of premature ejaculation:

① Occasionally premature ejaculation occurs during sexual intercourse when one is overly tired;

② It is not surprising that the man is too excited during the first sexual intercourse after a marriage or after a long separation, and often ejaculates quickly or even prematurely.

③ A couple who live apart from each other accidentally had premature ejaculation on the first night of their reunion. The burden on his mind was too heavy, leaving traces of adverse stimulation in his cerebral cortex. After that, he would have premature ejaculation on the first night of sex after a long separation, but he would be normal on the second and third nights. This special premature ejaculation phenomenon is not a cause for concern and is not pathological.

④ Some people tend to ejaculate too quickly when they have sex before going to bed, but ejaculation takes longer when they have sex after waking up in the middle of the night. This should not be considered premature ejaculation and can be treated accordingly.

⑤ If you ejaculate too quickly during intercourse, you can have intercourse again that night. If the ejaculation time is relatively long, you don't have to worry. This kind of repeated intercourse can also be used as an occasional method to deal with premature ejaculation, but it is not suitable for regular use. Another situation is that due to male sexual excitement, some liquid is secreted from the urethra. In fact, it is a kind of mucus secreted by glands such as the bulbourethral glands. It should not be mistaken for semen from premature ejaculation.