What to do if you have premature ejaculation before marriage? Treatment of premature ejaculation

Nowadays, young men have developed the bad habit of masturbation, and some even masturbate several times a day. This not only affects their health, but also reduces their sexual ability and even causes premature ejaculation. How should men treat premature ejaculation before getting married?

1. Drug treatment

Mainly use some antidepressants and sedatives, and for those with organic lesions, use some antibiotics to treat the primary disease.

2. Psychological treatment

The main focus is to analyze the mental factors that lead to premature ejaculation, and then provide psychological counseling to eliminate the causes and establish normal ejaculation conditioned reflexes.

(1) After both parties understand the causes of sexual dysfunction caused by premarital sex from a sexual psychology perspective, they should consciously start by reducing the frequency of sexual intercourse and get rid of the unhealthy sexual psychology patterns that they have established in the past.

(2) When creating a new sexual psychology model, the couple starts from being lovers and first lovers, reviewing the course of love and walking the path of love. Then, both parties start from the beginning in a safe and warm family atmosphere and fully enjoy the beauty of life.

(3) The wife should dress herself up as carefully as she did when they were in love, so as to fully mobilize and re-cultivate her husband’s sense of novelty towards her.

(4) In the future married life, the wife should intentionally maintain a sense of distance from her husband and must not "respond to every request" so that the husband continues to strengthen new sexual psychological and physiological signals.

3. Behavioral therapy

(1) Reduce the sensitivity of the glans penis by using some anesthetic or similar drugs.

(2) Through the wife's repeated training of the penis, the urgency of ejaculation can be delayed and the ejaculation threshold can be increased.

A. Intermittent intercourse method:

During sexual intercourse, when a man has a premonition of ejaculation, he should immediately stop the penis and leave it inside the vagina. When a woman is sexually excited, her vagina expands and the penis head does not touch the vaginal wall, which can reduce the stimulation of the glans and reduce sexual excitement. Wait until the premonition of ejaculation disappears completely before having sexual intercourse. Repeated intermittent sexual intercourse can prevent premature ejaculation.

B. Physical therapy:

Lumbar and sacral ultrashort wave diathermy, warm water bath, mineral bath, etc. can also be used as auxiliary treatment.

C. Pull down the scrotum and testicles method:

During sexual intercourse, when a man feels the need to ejaculate, his scrotum will shrink and his testicles will rise. At this time, the woman can use her hands to gently pull the man's scrotum and testicles downwards. This can reduce the man's sexual excitement, delay ejaculation, and prevent premature ejaculation.

D. Use condom sexual intercourse method:

When men use condoms during sexual intercourse, they can reduce friction on the penis, thereby reducing the sensitivity of male sexual arousal, prolonging sexual intercourse time and avoiding premature ejaculation.

E. Extrusion method:

This method is the best non-drug treatment for premature ejaculation. It can increase the male's ejaculation stimulation value, relieve the urgency of ejaculation, enhance sexual excitement, improve the reflex state of ejaculation, and rebuild or restore normal ejaculation time. The squeeze method can be performed by both men and women, but it is more effective when performed by women than by men alone.

(3) Change the sexual intercourse movements from slow to fast, reducing large movements to delay ejaculation.