Why do men easily change their minds after marriage? The unspeakable secrets of men’s change of heart!

Marriage is a matter between two people. It requires both parties to manage it together and to respect, tolerate and understand each other in order to slowly maintain the relationship. So why do men change their minds?

1. The two of them were too close and too passionate.

It is a woman's nature to be clingy. The sweetness of marriage in her vision will make women cling more, and they will not want to be apart even when they go to the toilet together. At the beginning, men also like it, but as time goes by, they will gradually feel annoyed. If you don't pay attention to the size and distance at this time, in the long run, men will not be able to stand it and will change their minds soon.

2. Both of them are too cold and have too many thorns.

Some people now advocate that couples should live apart from each other more often. I also think it is feasible. If two people are so familiar with each other, it is good to live apart to create a sense of distance and enhance their relationship. However, distance does not mean indifference. Indifference is a chronic killer of marriage. Because of indifference, it is like a sharp thorn standing tall, and it is impossible to get close to it. Because it is impossible to get close to her, many men choose to give in to her.

3. They do not resolve small conflicts, and they do not settle big conflicts.

In a marriage, bumps are inevitable. As long as both parties are more tolerant and understanding, trust and cherish each other, no matter how big the bumps are, they can be reduced to small ones. However, if small bumps are not dealt with, they will accumulate over time, and the couple will be even less willing to solve them, or even unable to face them, and change of heart is ready to happen.

4. The more money a man has, the more power he gains.

Everyone knows this. Men will become bad when they have money, and they will fall in love when they have power. Becoming bad or falling in love is similar to changing one's heart, and the essence is the same. Therefore, having a lot of money is not necessarily a good thing, and having a lot of power is not necessarily a good thing. If you don't do it well, you will lose your moral integrity and ambition, hurt others and yourself, and changing your heart is nothing.

5. There are too many romantic encounters and the temptation is too strong.

Nowadays, it is not difficult to have a romantic encounter, and temptation is hard to resist. The ambiguity everywhere often makes people lose their way. After marriage, men see more and more of the world, and if they are not controlled, they often voluntarily jump into the circle of temptation, and they are happy and happy. The more different flavors from his wife, the closer the day of cheating is.

6. People are fickle by nature, and they will always eat shit.

This kind of man, whether before or after marriage, will maintain the glorious tradition of changing his mind. You say he is fickle, but he is not fickle, just fickle. He cannot set a goal or stick to a fixed point. Moreover, he changes his mind without considering the consequences, a typical selfish hedonist. Even if there are no conditions for changing his mind, he will actively create the conditions.