How to comfort your wife when she is angry? Just these three tips

Are men tired? Many men can relate to this. At work, men not only have to please their bosses, but also their wives when they get home. So how to please their wives is a headache for men. Today, I will give you three tips.

1. Use praise to induce your wife to be tolerant.

Women not only like sweet words, but also like compliments. Even if they know that their husbands' compliments are not realistic, they will still enjoy it. The more compliments a woman receives for a certain thing, the more willing she is to do it well. Men should make full use of this characteristic to coax their wives, comfort women by complimenting them instead of criticizing them, and mobilize women's enthusiasm to support their husbands' careers. For example: When a man has no time to take care of the family and attracts complaints, it is easy to cause quarrels between the couple if not handled properly. The man only needs to say to his wife: "I am busy with work all day and I am not at home. Our family owes you a lot. Thank you for your understanding and support!"

After the wife is praised by her husband, she cannot express her resentment even if she feels it in her heart. This kind of long-term guidance is to give women a self-suggestion: instead of complaining and making her husband unhappy, it is more practical to be tolerant and earn a few compliments. When a man corrects his wife's unkempt appearance or poor housework, he can also get twice the result with half the effort by praising her little progress.

2. Tell your wife to be at ease with your care.

Women are more fragile than men, and need to have enough sense of security in marriage. Women without a sense of security are neither confident nor happy. With the development of society and the continuous update of marriage and love concepts, there are more and more men who are promiscuous and unfaithful. Women need to spend a lot of time to prevent men from being unfaithful, which will naturally make them feel exhausted physically and mentally, leading to bad complexion, bad mood, and bad temper... Practice has proved that women who are confident in marriage will do their best to support men's careers. If men want women to support them wholeheartedly, they must use care to make their wives feel at ease.

There are many ways for men to care for their wives. Small favors and showing love on important days are all ways to convey love. This kind of care will make women feel that their husbands always keep them in their hearts. For example: staying by the bedside of the wife when she is sick, asking about her health, giving her a hug when she is happy or sad, handing her a glass of water or helping her with cooking, buying her a small gift she likes when she is on a business trip, giving her a bouquet of flowers on Valentine's Day, inviting friends to celebrate her birthday, etc. These kinds of care will make women feel extremely happy.

3. Use praise to inspire your wife’s filial piety.

Nowadays, most couples have only one child and need to take care of many elderly people. When a woman gets married, she actually marries into the man's family. Due to the deep-rooted traditional concepts, the other party is not considered as a family member, resulting in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becoming the most difficult family relationship. Although the happiness of marriage depends on the emotional foundation of the couple, the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact on the marriage. It is particularly important for men to coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. Although there are many ways to reconcile the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, since most mothers-in-law only want respect and filial piety from their daughters-in-law, it is better for men to prevent conflicts before they happen than to passively coordinate after conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Therefore, from the day of marriage, you should stimulate your wife's filial piety and mobilize her enthusiasm to respect her mother-in-law. By exchanging hearts, you can guide the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to have a good relationship. Therefore, men should be good at discovering their wives' little acts of filial piety and praise them in time. Encouraged wives will do better. As sons, you should also pay attention to your mother's reaction. When your wife's filial piety is well responded by her mother, you should give her a thumbs up. Otherwise, you need to remind her to treat her daughter-in-law well.