Understand the psychology of impotence, get rid of inferiority and embarrassment, and move towards a happy sexual life

Work, life, family, illness, living habits, etc., all factors may cause male impotence. The occurrence of this disease not only brings physical harm to male friends, but more importantly, psychological harm. Let us understand some common impotence psychology.

Internal psychological reasons

1. Lack of self-confidence

Some men are overly concerned about their "small penis", thinking that it is not as big as others, and they are afraid that they cannot satisfy their wives' sexual demands or overemphasize the husband's responsibility for satisfying his wife's sexual needs, thinking that if they cannot satisfy their wives' needs once, there is something wrong with them. All of these will cause them to have excessive psychological pressure, which may lead to impotence. In addition, some people usually have poor psychological quality, and when they are slightly criticized by their wives during sex, they will be resentful, and they cannot get rid of this psychological pressure when they have sex next time, so impotence may also occur.

2. Disharmony between husband and wife

For example, the failure of the first sexual intercourse after marriage, the wife is dissatisfied with the husband, which makes the couple uncoordinated and uncooperative, and the husband goes to the room with an unhappy mood, which is easy to cause psychological impotence. In addition, the woman has a third party, the husband is hostile to his wife or the man has an affair, lacks interest in his wife, the woman fails to arouse the husband's sexual interest, etc., are all psychological factors that cause impotence.

External psychological reasons

1. Lack of correct sexual knowledge

Strict demands on sex from parents in the family, emotional discord between parents, and parents not only failing to provide proper sex education to their children during their adolescence but also being too shy to answer questions about sex when their children ask them. These behaviors will cause them to have a wrong understanding of sex, thinking that it is something low and obscene. This will cause them to have excessive psychological pressure during sex and can easily lead to psychological impotence.

2. Wrong explanation from doctors

Some doctors, in order to increase their income or because of their poor medical standards, say that the patient's "kidney" is "very difficult to treat", resulting in patients worrying about their kidneys all day long, as if there is really no cure, which can lead to erectile difficulties. In addition, some patients suffer from other diseases or have had sexually transmitted diseases, and after recovery, they are still worried about "sequelae", which leads to unsatisfactory sexual performance due to tension.

The general psychological reasons for men's impotence can be summarized as the above points. You may wish to learn about them.