Why do men hide their past love affairs?

Many men have been with many women, and their love history is also very rich. Many men often hide their past love history when they meet their next love. So why do men hide their love history? How do men view their old lovers?

The ex is the biggest enemy to the current one. Some girls are afraid that their boyfriends still have feelings for their ex, so they force their boyfriends to delete all visible things, or constantly ask their boyfriends who is better between them and their ex? Who is prettier? Men usually hide their love history from their current one, thinking that it is better to have less trouble than more. Some boys also want to find a new girlfriend to help them forget the pain of the past because they cannot forget their ex. At this time, if the ex suddenly appears, it will be easy for the boy to return to the arms of his ex.

It is true that when a man meets his ex-girlfriend, he will often be sentimental, thinking that the person he once had feelings for will always keep some feelings in his heart, and fantasize that the woman who loved him will always love him. Women will only beautify the man in front of them, but men will unconsciously beautify the past relationship. Therefore, men are more likely than women to agree that: break up or still be friends. Whether it is the dumping or being dumped, most men are willing to keep in touch with their ex-girlfriends.

Because men and women have different views on old lovers, men can only bury all the good memories deep in their hearts.

How do men view their exes?

There was a survey on the Internet about how men view their ex-girlfriends. The survey shows that 42% of men keep in touch with their ex-girlfriends through phone calls, the Internet, dinners, etc. Including the 6% of men who slept with their ex-girlfriends, nearly half of the men are still in contact with their ex-girlfriends. In other words, if a man has an ex-girlfriend, one out of two men can still contact his ex-girlfriend. 54% of men said they would hide their past love history. Friends who have watched "Cell Phone" should remember that when Yan Shouyi contacted other women, he would always lie to his wife involuntarily and say that it was a call from his boss. It can be seen that men subconsciously always try their best not to let their wives know that they have contact with other opposite sex. Especially when this opposite sex is an ex-girlfriend with whom he had a relationship entanglement, men are even more cunning like a fox.

How to hide past love history from your boyfriend?

1. Open one eye and close one eye

If your boyfriend has been hiding his past from you and you accidentally find out, don't rush to argue with him. First, find out what the problem is and why. Learn to turn a blind eye, give him more space and time, and care about him more, so that he can forget his ex sooner!

2. Believe in him and encourage him

Sometimes a boyfriend hides the past because it is a wound and he does not want to touch it. At this time, as a girlfriend, you should believe him and encourage him.

3. Think from a different perspective

Men hide their past marriage history, bad habits, etc. From a man's perspective, they hide things because they don't want to hurt women and hope that their current relationship can develop smoothly, which is understandable.

How the 12 zodiac signs view their ex-lovers

If life is a lesson, love is definitely one of the most important subjects. Women in ancient times said that a woman's fate is like sesame and rapeseed, and she has no choice at all. Modern women are much luckier and are no longer like drifting duckweed in the wind. They have their own opinions, but because they have more choices, they cannot blame others if they make the wrong choice. This is another kind of risk.

Therefore, in addition to having the ability to make a living at work, modern women should also strengthen their love regeneration function to help themselves become new-era women who can heal themselves. The zodiac signs are just for your reference.

Waiting for time to pass quietly (Aries, Cancer, Libra, Capricorn)

The only way for the Basic Palace to forget their old lover is to wait for time to pass. Time is the best medicine to dilute the shock they have received and the memories that are occupying their minds. Because the Basic Palace is born with the ability to remember things, they want to forget more than anyone else when they are hurt, but they just can't forget. This makes them extremely painful, and every time they remember some details, they have to spend time dealing with some new injuries, so it usually takes them a long time to start the next relationship. If they never get married, it is likely because they are hurt too badly and can no longer trust anyone. They have been trying to heal the pain in their hearts all their lives.

In addition to waiting for time to pass, the love given by the new woman may help him forget the past. As long as you can promise him a future and a full love, his wounds will naturally heal over time and he will regain confidence in love. But don't force him to accept your love quickly. They are naturally easy-going and don't force love. Especially after being hurt in love, he can't immediately regain his confidence. Forcing him at this time will only make haste make waste.

Find someone new as soon as possible to forget the old one (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius)

For fixed signs, "old lovers are shit", especially when they have a new lover, they will definitely just want to forget the previous one, and don't want the purity of the relationship to be affected. The current one is always the best. Besides, the past is the past, so why mention it again? (It seems like a line from a song~) The new relationship is going well, and they are grateful that the old lover left, so that they can meet such a good partner now.

In every relationship, fixed signs always think that they have done their best. If the other party does not appreciate them, there is no need to keep trying. They are not ambiguous like cardinal signs. They have an "all or nothing" attitude towards love. When they love you, they are considerate, attentive, and patient. But when they break up, they suddenly feel that their efforts are "a blind dream" and they must forget everything.

People tend to think that fixed signs forget their old lover when they find someone new. But that's not necessarily true. If he dumped you, the guilt would make him unable to forget you, and he would always be thinking about how you are doing now. Or if you are so outstanding that you impressed him deeply, he would be more motivated for you and would not be able to forget you in order to prove himself.

Don't keep it in your heart and refuse to forget (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces)

When facing an old lover, the mutable house has two situations. One is that he buries the old lover deep in his heart and pretends that nothing happened. After pretending for a long time, he is the only one in the world who knows whether he has forgotten or not. In fact, he is a little lonely and a little depressed in his heart, but he will not let others know this sadness because he hides it very well. This type of mutable house will deliberately make himself very busy and active, like a spinning top, so that he does not have to face the emptiness when he is alone. He tries to use the lively or chaotic atmosphere outside to exchange for a little inner peace.

The other type is the mutable house with a strong self-esteem. They will try to bless their ex-lover and try hard to turn love into friendship. After the painful period of breaking up, they can still maintain a friendly relationship with their ex-lover. Because for them, being friends with their ex-lover retains the familiarity of intimacy and mutual understanding between each other, but also has the indifference of friends, which makes them freer and more unconstrained.

Many people in the mutable houses realize after breaking up that their devotion to their lovers has actually been a burden to themselves, so they decide to let go. In addition to regaining their past innocence, they also find confidence.

Which type of woman is more likely to get a new life?

First Pisces woman

Pisces women have both the mysteriousness of Scorpio women and the ever-changing image of Gemini women. Moreover, they are sweet-mouthed and observant, and they are first-rate at giving compliments, which not only makes the person being complimented feel heartwarming but also makes people feel her sincerity. In nightclubs, they are even more charming, and they will show off their advantages whenever possible. In private, they are smart and capable, and will pretend to be helpless and need to be cared for in front of men, because they know that they have to show weakness in front of men. Obviously, she is the one who should pursue the other party, but she is extremely smart and can reverse the situation and let the other party pursue her. Pisces women can be said to be women among women.

Second twin children

Geminis are smart and clever. They know their own strengths and are good at showing off. They know how to show their lively and lovely side, but from time to time they appear depressed, worried, and pitiful, yet they refuse help from the opposite sex. They have the resolute image of doing everything by themselves. This contrasting impression of being both strong and fragile immediately attracts the attention of boys. They look like a Bond girl one minute and an innocent little lily the next. The ever-changing appearance of Geminis makes men fascinated. If they lock on their target, the other person will definitely not escape the grasp of Geminis.

The third Scorpio woman

Scorpio women exude a confident charm. They are full of mystery and know that their eyes are their secret weapon to attract the opposite sex. When a Scorpio woman wants to seduce the opposite sex, she will look at the other person affectionately but not let the other person guess her feelings, but will maintain close physical contact with the other person. This kind of subtle flirting atmosphere is what Scorpio women are best at. In addition, Scorpio women will show their wisdom or abilities at the right time to impress the opposite sex, so Scorpio women can usually easily catch the target they have locked on.

Conclusion: It is still difficult for men to let go of their old lovers. Many people easily fall in love again when they meet their old lovers. So how do different men view their old lovers? After reading the above introduction, everyone has a better understanding of how men view their old lovers!