Men like women to "please" themselves in this way

People often say that "femininity" is the most attractive. In fact, what kind of femininity do men like? I believe you must not know! Today, let's take stock of what kind of advances men like in women. Why not take a look at how to manage the best way for men and women to get along with each other from here!

What kind of advances do men like in women?

Many women probably think, "I'm willing to do anything for the one I love the most." As a boyfriend, if your girlfriend has such thoughts, you can't be unhappy. However, in fact, some actions of women that are said to be "for their boyfriends" may cause dissatisfaction in the other party. The article on the Japanese Livedoor portal website on March 16 introduced 4 behaviors of women that make boyfriends very distressed.

1. Dress up

"Every time I go out with her, she dresses up nicely, but I actually prefer her without makeup. She is undoubtedly cute with makeup on, but since I've already seen her without makeup, there's no need for her to put on makeup. And I think there are many men who like their girlfriends without makeup." (22 years old/clothing industry)

There are indeed many men who say they prefer their girlfriends to be without makeup. It is hard to describe the complex feelings of women who hear these words, whether they are happy or worried.

Women who spend at least 10 minutes putting on makeup for a date will be sad when their boyfriend tells them that they prefer your natural look. They will think, “How much time of my life have I wasted?”

In this way, men who know that their girlfriends will definitely be unhappy about this may hide their true feelings that they "prefer to go without makeup."

My boyfriend is so considerate. For his sake, female friends should also try to wear light makeup and observe his preferences.

2. Accurate cost amortization

"My girlfriend will split the cost with me every time we go out for dinner or anything else, even to the exact dollar. I also hope that I can pay more or not let her pay a penny, but it seems that I will feel a little sorry for her if I don't split it equally. Although I am very happy that she does this, at least I want to experience the feeling of 'individual heroism'." (21 years old/college student)

Although there are little devils in the world, and girls who unilaterally let their boyfriends pay for meals, there are also honest girls like the one mentioned above.

I think that although there may be very few women who are so precise as to share the cost to 1 yuan, most women share the same feeling of not wanting their boyfriends to spend lavishly for them.

However, men always have a psychological need to "treat guests". This depends on the dignity of men that women do not understand. On the other hand, many men choose to hide their self-esteem in front of their girlfriends.

Another friend said, "I guess treating her to dinner is a way of paying her back for putting on makeup for me before the date."

Female friends, occasionally you should accept your boyfriend’s kindness and let him treat you.

3. The unpalatable "love bento"

“My girlfriend often cooks for me, but the food always tastes weird…At first, I was very happy about her kindness and accepted it with gratitude, but now I can’t stand it…I can’t say it (bitter smile)” (24 years old/company employee)

The proverb "If you want to win a man's heart, you must first win his stomach" has inspired countless women who are not good at cooking. There is nothing more sad than cooking a meal with all your heart and effort only to make your boyfriend upset.

Friends who know that their cooking skills are poor, let us take a break until our cooking skills have improved to the point where we can be proud of them.

4. Leave the dating to him

"What frustrates me when we're dating is that she leaves everything up to me. When I ask her 'where to go?' she'll say 'it's up to you'. When I ask her 'what to eat?' she'll say 'it's up to you'. At first I thought she was just trying to take care of my feelings, but it's always like this and I feel exhausted."

It is true that women feel more comfortable entrusting themselves to their boyfriends by saying "come with me", but there are also men who are extremely disgusted by their girlfriends' behavior.

Many women want to let their boyfriends do what they want, but boyfriends will inevitably get tired of the same old routine every time they go out. This is because every date, including the venue and food, is unexpectedly complicated.

"I'll make the decision this time, and you'll make the decision next time." This way, adopting a shift system may be a good solution.

5. Final summary

So what? Everything is going against your will because of his behavior, right? He is gentle and considerate, but he may be hiding his true thoughts from you.

Explore and discover from time to time, and try to ask him what he really thinks. He is gentle and will definitely tell you his true thoughts in a tactful way.

I hope the above ways of getting along between men and women can be helpful to you!