What is the standard of a good man?

There are many common things in life. We need to have a comprehensive understanding of things so that we will be clearer about how to choose. There are many aspects to the standards of a good man. When women choose men, they cannot do it casually, otherwise the choice will be bad and will not bring happiness to themselves. So what kind of man is the best choice? Let me introduce it in detail below.

The standard of a good man:

1. Have strong perseverance

The most important quality of a good husband is strength. A husband who complains and becomes depressed after a failure, and who cannot get up after falling down, cannot give his wife a sense of security. If a husband often cries about his misfortune in front of his wife, and makes his wife bear the pain that he can actually save, he is a great failure.

2. Responsible Love

A husband with a strong sense of responsibility will not only be good at his job and love it, but also take good care of the family and know how to cherish it, so that his wife can rely on him with confidence. A loving husband will love everything about his wife, including her shortcomings and deficiencies, and love her friends and relatives.

3. Have a stable income

"Poor couples have many worries", "The economic base determines the superstructure", "Money is not everything, but without money, nothing can be done", these sayings are somewhat absolute when applied to marriage, but they are by no means without reason. It is important for a husband to love his wife and family, but it must be based on having bread. You don't have to be rich, but you must have a secure life.

4. Be open-minded and generous

He will not get angry with his wife or jealous of others over trivial matters, and will allow his wife to have her own independent social circle of friends instead of acting as a disguised killer to stifle his wife's vitality; he will be good at listening to other people's opinions, and make corrections if necessary, and encourage others if not.

5. Have a healthy body

You don't have to be tall and strong, but you must have a healthy body, because the body is the capital of revolution.

6. Have a sound personality

A husband with a defective personality will inevitably lead to the real failure of the marriage. A person with a sound personality knows how to control his desires, including moderation in eating and drinking; he can control himself, be tolerant of others' unreasonableness, and not develop hatred; he is usually taciturn and does not say nonsense, but is cheerful and humorous when interacting with others; he does things in an orderly manner and can seek truth from facts; he faces sex squarely without being ambiguous, and does not treat sexual behavior as a game.

7. Have insight

They can express their positive and original ideas in words, and will not show off by borrowing the influence of others; they will not stop learning and be open to new things, and will not hastily deny them.

8. Be considerate

Marriage is a way of life for a husband and wife to help each other, not a means of survival. The husband requires his wife to be wise, and the husband's own attentiveness, consideration and tolerance are also essential factors for a successful marriage.

9. Have fun in life

Although many people agree that "simple life is the real life", if a husband treats his wife and marriage as seriously as he treats his work, his excessive seriousness will become a mental burden in the marriage. A husband with a wide range of hobbies and a humorous and interesting life can not only have positive exchanges with his wife, but also be invincible in the social circle.

10. No bad habits

You can smoke a little, drink a little, and be flexible in socializing, but not too much. No wife wants to face a drunken husband all day long, especially when her husband's mouth always smells like cigarettes.

After understanding the standards of a good man, you can follow the above methods when choosing a man. However, after choosing a man, you also need to get to know him better, especially for men you have just met. You should pay more attention to this. A good man will take responsibility for the family, so women don’t have to worry about being unhappy in life.